So this is a little weird for me. I joined the form a couple years ago, was real into the game and then started hating myself for being a jerk (nothing against any PUAs gentlemen, it was personally and strictly against myself) so decided to stop. But not before I met this girl who I ended up dating for six months. We broke up mutually for stupid reasons, basically making excuses of why we couldn't be together blah blah blah. Facts are, it's a year later, we've both dated other people but stayed in contact, and even now we both have admitted that we have feelings for each other. And finally, the twist with this story.

She just graduated college as a photographer. And I'm in the military (Air Force). I live on the other side of the country, and we're planning a visit soon, so my only method of contact is the occasional phone call and frequent text message. What advice can anyone give on things I can do before she comes and while she's here. It's pretty far fetched that anything can come of this, but that's the way I am. I'm just looking for some help, not criticism. Thanks. Shalom.

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Your Humble Servant and Brother,

Cohath

I don't know man,,, you seem to be really in control of things. The fact that you can keep it cool like you have it right know is what you're really looking for.

I guess it all depends on what you want to happen here. Are you looking to go long term or frame things so that you will hook up when she arrives?