Hey guys,

So I have this girlfriend that we have been dating for six months now and she said two weeks ago that she wanted some space.She has had alot happen to her in the last month.She had an abortion which I think is a big part of it.I just got so mad when she is hanging out with her guy "friends" alone.Or like last night we went out to a night club with some of her friends and this guy would not stop grinding on her.I had all I could do from knocking this fag out.Now she says she is just dancing and would never cheat on me but I really wonder.She says that she wants to be with me but just needs some space and is not looking for some one else.But in my eyes it does not seam like that.What should I do guys?

Oh man, you are in trouble. Why are you letting her grind on other guys again? You have not set up proper boundaries with this chick, and she probably thinks she can get away with anything. You have bigger problems then her just wanting space, which is the reason she wants space in the first place. As someone from an outside perspective far far away, from what I can tell you should give it to her, forever. Break-up with her man. If all she needs is space for real, and shes not just lying about it, she will come back to you.

You gotta man up dude and set boundaries with what is cool and with what is not in the future. I would let this one go, permanently. Sorry to say.

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Yeah, your in trouble mate. Sorry but true. You can either break up with her or set boundaries, start going out with a bunch of women, not acting so needy im guessing. But it could be a hard thing to turn around, probably not worth the effort. Just my advice.