OK Guys,

Here is the run down:

1- She's a 10. Just turned 22 years old. Very confident and level headed. Smart and less romantic than other girls I know. Very independent.

2- We were Bf&Gf for about 5 months. The first 4 were amazing. The last month was just fighting all the time. She was very challenging in everything we dealt with, so and we fighting. I know my fault, I should have been more chill and relaxed.

3- We break up. it's been over a week now. I freak out and wanna get back with her.

4- We talk everyonce and a while on the phone, but it's really short and basically me being over dramatic saying we should get back together and make it work

5- She can only think of the negative of the last month and being very pessimist. She kept saying that she needs time and space to process things. This is freeking me out coz I'm thinking that'll only make it easier on her to get over the relastionship and the more we spend time away from each other the more we grow apart.

6- She says if you need to move on then move on, I need time to process. I finally said, I don't need to move on, I don't want to move on. As for her concerns about why the relationship went down, I agreed with her that I should have been more chill and relaxed. She is still processing.

I need to get her back.

Looks like I need to game my ex-girlfriend again and spark her interest.

How do we do this?

Hopefully I can give you a few examples to help you start recuperating from this rough breakup.

Man it seems like I did the exact same thing last year...I usually get one-itis ever so often just to remind myself that it doesn't work. I got really over dramatic after a phenomenal first date with this girl, and told her I could really see something happening between us. She freaked and I lost the set that I was already fingers deep in (literally). But man I played it coy, didn't really contact her at all, and ever so often, she would text ME... Out of the blue, without me texting her first. She even asked me to lunch and wanted to see me obviously. But here's the catch: I dropped her completely from my mind. I wasn't trying to go out and sarge or do anything really intentionally to get her off my mind, I just dropped her. And man believe me it's easier said than done and I know it hurts, but you have to let it go...and if it comes back then you know there was more there than just a bad breakup.

This has happened to me several times when I seriously think I've lost all contact with a girl and it turns out she misses me more than I realized. Don't wait it out, but if it comes up again be ready to accept it and make a move for the best.

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"I need some time" blablabla isn't as bad as it can be understood. Why? Just remember those days when you wanted only to be alone, without her, without your friends, just alone, for a week or so. I don't know about you, but for me this actually happens. But if she's 10 i think, she told you everything you needed to know