hey guys

my girlfriend had her sex her first time when she was 15 with another guys, i cant really get over it
I waited with having sex till i found someone special, but when i found out she already done everything (blowjob, everything) my stomach kinda backflipped

during our relationship her parents and family dont really seem to accept me, I dont know why. they think im not worthy or something

my family however embraces my gf with both arms which i kinda dont like, cuz in her family they wanna get rid of me
like literally they kinda keep me out of a lot of things.

her family is not really poor but she never pays anything, like when i wanted to meet her i always had to pay the trips to see her cuz she lived very far away
she never came to me

one day she did come close to where i live. this was because some of her family lives here too it was her birthday and thats when she broke up with me

after a week it got back on but she was already back home very far from me.

i suspected her from cheating on me. because of this

right now we live close to each other, but we hardly ever meet
we are both "busy" a lot
and the romance is kinda gone, we kinda have a fake relationship and im looking to find another better girl.


but here's the hard question; please help me,
my mother wants to make a huge trip this summer to australia (other side of the world for us) with our family and she said i could take my gf with me. It would cost like 2000 dollars extra to bring her with us but my mom doesnt care, she has got enough money
Well i kinda dont like the idea of my GF coming cuz i wanted to use a lot of pua techniques on vacation, far away from my gf and be free and forget about my gf and close a lot of girls on this trip on the other side of the world

my girlfriend however contacted my mom, and my mom loves my gf (for no reason, she only met her twice or something )
and my gf loves to come, not really because of me, but just because of the trip

her parents are also okay with it because they have something to brag about, but here;s the point they always looked down on me and now they wanna be cool with their friends bragging that her daughter is going to australia
its stupid.

anyway i dont really know what i should do, i have no friends that i trust so thats why im posting this whole true story here.

my mom can still cancel the trip, or at least kick my girlfriend out till tomorrow evening otherwise the deal is on and there's no return. unless my gf gets ill or someting..

I visitied my gf today, and try to talk the trip out of her head but she LOVES it
she is like, when do you ever get a chance to go to australia for free ?!
and im like in the back of my head, yeah but we have to pay ..
i really dont like this
especially because her family never gives me anything

i had this deal with my brother that we would go to stripclubs and have fun there sarging ladies
and now my gf comes along too
I dont want to say that she cant come anymore, cuz i would disappoint her, her family and my mom.

what do i do

im working on a masterful lie to tell everyone, like telling my gf i dont wanna go and my mom kicked me out and thats why she shoudltn go aswell.

but i still dont know a good lie

what do yall guys think i should do ?
go with my girlfriend and try to have fun ?

i seriously dont know what i want

what would you guys do









steke.

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Because girls don't like sex.. Yeah RIGHT!
Why else do you think girls have P*ssies

Ok dude! Youve come to the right place. I have a feeling everyone here is going to be in agreement on this.... Fuck that bitch! You must break up with her. You even said she wasn't your real girlfriend. She is using you. She is using your mom. Her family is using your parents. This has NO NO NO all over it.

Not to mention she will fuck your whole trip up! You and your bro have an opportunity to go on a trip of a lifetime, one you will always remember. You cannot let this girl go!

So what do you do? First of all. Grow some balls (sorry to put it like that, but you gotta make a stand for yourself!)! Whose feelings are you worried about hurting? Your moms? I certainly hope its not your "gf" or her shitty family. Second, you have absolutely no reason to lie! Your mom cares about you a hell of a lot more then this chick, believe it. Tell her that you don't want her to go. Its the truth right.

As far as the 'gf' is concerned, she is not your girl friend, and she probably is cheating on you, or has at least thought about it. Drop her NOW! Break up with her, make her cry, make her not want to go. Are you seriously contemplating this dumb girl fucking up YOUR TRIP?!?! I wish I was there to shake you! haha

Wow, dude. You know what the right thing to do is. Now all you have to do is DO IT! Dont lie either, that may make things worse. BOTTOMLINE- STOP HER FROM GOING AT ALL COSTS!! Good luck with that phone call. It should be short and harsh. "Hello Stephanie (or whoever) I don't really want you to come to Australlia with my family. Sorry. I don't think we should see each other anymore either. Bye." Done.

EDIT...

Another thing. Do you know how many hot chicks are in Australia? I dont know where you are from but its not there. Meaning you will have a different accent which will make you stand out. This could be a huge confidence booster to your game because you will be receiving positive feedback automatically. If she goes, you will be on lock down while she flirts with Aussies in front of you (maybe not, but who knows). It would be a pretty bad trip if she went. You will feel sooooo much better without her there. Thank me when you get back! (ps Dont let her go) pps I think I'm free this summer...

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Holy crap man.. Reading this post made me pretty pissed off. You need to drop this girl quick! This trip should be an experience you never forget! Definitely tell her that she cannot come, maybe it will make her want you more when you come back.. but honestly, what does that even matter! This girl is a waste of your time! Trust me! Go have the tme of your life in Australia and leave her ass behind! If she is still there waiting for you after the trip, then maybe there is more to her that meets the eye (per say). But it sounds like she is totally using you and its not cool. You want a girl that appreciates all that you do. If you end up taking her on this trip... I will lose all respect for you. Talk to your mother about this... tell her the situation. PLEASE GOD DO NOT TAKE HER

I agree with the other guys. Absolutely do not take her. Since she broke up with you before, you're just being used for the trip and you'd probably end up trying to get close with her again but she screw you again (not the good kind).

Tough break man.

1. Break up with her.

2. Tell your parents about what has happened, how you felt about the relationship.

You gotta do this for yourself man!

BREAK UP WITH HER AND ENJOY YOUR TRIP!

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Been around the world twice, Talked to everyone once...

Everyones right I'm afraid, as much as you don't want to you HAVE to break up with her.

Shes using you man, her family don't like you because she hasn't bigged you up to them.

They're using you, shes using you and your mum loves her because you love her.

Please do it for yourself and break up with her. You deserve so much better than her. Please

Let us know what you decided to do.

hey friends

thank yall for the posts, i read it in the morning and it helped me today because i kinda woke up.

I just had her on the phone, i didnt want to dump her but just shittest her what was more important; me or the trip.

I told her i didnt like to go on a vacation with her and my parents cuz we would not be free to do what we like to do. so I told her I talked to my mom about it and my mom was okay if we didnt come along to australia

my GF didnt like it of course, but i tried to not make her feel that bad about it and i told her that I love it a lot more to go on vacation just with her than to go on vacation with my whole family


she is pissed off right now at me, really pissed
she told me she had already told everyone that she was going to australia (this is not my mistake, she is a gossip queen. What comes around goes around so i kinda loved to hear this ^^ )

anyway she is really pissed off, she didnt talk on the phone and whenever she said something she was trying to make me feel bad in order for her to get what she wants

in the end of the call we nearly didnt speak, it was like listening to a quiet phone for 10 minutes so i was like let me call you back later.

thats where I am right now. I dont feel bad at all, i feel good about it. for 2 reasons, she does not get what she wants, and i know for sure the trip was far more important to her than me.

what do you guys think

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Failure was never an option


Because girls don't like sex.. Yeah RIGHT!
Why else do you think girls have P*ssies

"Hey folks Here's a story 'bout Minnie The Moocher..."

She wants stuff, not you.
She is interested in herself, and what your job is, in her eyes, seems to be to make her feel better, and give her shit.

Fuck her.


The emotional stuff she'll pull out of her arse and shove in your direction, don't let it affect you.
She will do that sort of shit because that's how she's learned to get her will. It's unconscious, so your job will now be to teach her that whining and boo-hooing won't make you more willing to give her what she wants.

Be strong, be firm.


Think about it,
Giving attention to that sort of behavior will nurture it, and it will get stronger, until she controls you, completely.



So, learn to be firm about how you want it.
You're the one in charge.

now...


Cheers.

1. You could either break up with her at this point because you realised that shes isnt worth it.
Or
2. If she doesnt want to talk to you, then dont speak with her. When she does try and contact you, act like theres no problem with what you did. If shes over it by the time you are back and..... i decided to stick with option one.

Good job. I understand that you wanted to let her down softly, but I think you need to find a better girl. You mentioned that your self. She thinks youre great when you have something to offer, but then shes "busy" when you are interested in seeing her. Totti had it DEAD on; her parents arent so enthusiastic about you because she is not that enthusiastic about you when they ask about you. And to YOU for that matter. Its called karma how she went around and told everyone that she was going, and now she isnt. I still thing you should lose this one. Sarge right now and hone some skills for Down Unduh! Your trip will be much better now. Have fun.

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hey studs

thank yall for helping me on this one !
i feel very supported by the good, dead on replies
it helped me a lot!

she wants to see me tomorrow, probably break up. I really dont care, better now than in 10 years

and ill have the best trip of my life this summer

thank you guys !

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Failure was never an option


Because girls don't like sex.. Yeah RIGHT!
Why else do you think girls have P*ssies

That was right move man!

You sure will have ur best trip 4ever, and I can tell you wont regret breaking up with THAT BITCHm who tried using you!

Have a nice vacation with HBs at Australia!