So here is the situation...

My girlfriend is still a virgin. She WANTS to have Sex with me BUT she has a big Problem.
She told me she cant get undressed in front of other people, because she doesnt like her body... She is thinking "what if he doesnt like my body?". She cant turn it off, and I have no plan on what to do ...

Any ideas?

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I have a few ideas....

Can you have her get undressed while the room is dark, with the lights off. Um, maybe have her get undressed and under the sheets waiting for you. Then make love under the covers. Um, maybe just slide her drawers down, your mahood in her, and go for it that way.

Maybe you can wear a blindfold! That can be fun and kinky actually!

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Been around the world twice, Talked to everyone once...

The ideas themselves are great, but there is one problem.

I am a virgin too and i dont want to have my first time with blinfolds or her cloths on.

But the idea to do it under the corvers is a quite good idea for this problem

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Now you're complicating the problem, LOL, don't get picky on me. Seriously, I hope you come up with something. Build her up though. Work on telling her constantly that she is cute pretty etc.

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Been around the world twice, Talked to everyone once...

I have a quite good idea. We could take a few hours for it, take to clothes off part by part and in between cuddle and kiss so it isnt like all off at once.

What do you think of that? Its crazy she even doesnt look at herself in the mirror, i dont understand it she is a really beatuiful girl and has a great body! But she is insecure because she heard so much stuff in the radio or TV and keeps thinking "what if he doesnt like my body ..." and so on...

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Start slowly on top of her, tell her to trust you whilst you look directly in her eyes whlist your saying it.

make out, rub her back slowly and passionatly first... then gradually but VERY slowly work your way to rubbing her stomach under her shirt, tell her how her body is so soft and warm. kiss her neck, carry on rubbing her back, and tellinng her how soft and warm she is, whisper in her ear. gradually you can work to kissing her stomach.

its not that she doesnt feel comfortable with her body its that shes worried you dont. Dont tell her you feel comfortable, demonstrate it.

I mean does she know your a V?

today she came to my place. we were making out on the sofa and then i took her to my bedroom. we were cuddeling/making out. and i got her partly undressed. Just her top. Then i went with my hand under her panties but she stopped me. She told me she is afraid, i wouldnt like things about her body...
I have no idea how to get it in her brain that it isnt like this. I told her that it is normal that she is afraid, but i wasnt able to take it further...

Ideas?

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what if she has a cock?? LOL that was mean...no seriously tho. one of my ex's was exactly like that. at first she would only have sex with her panties off...i f-closed her without seeing her boobies!! just keep complimenting her and telling her how lucky you are to be with her and stuff. chicks fall for that stuff dude. just give it time...

alright i made up a little game plan for the whole stuff... please comment on it!

Step One:
I will take her to the living Room. I will start making her laugh and be playfull (she is eeeextremly ticklish). So on we will be cuddling and kissing.

Step Two:
I will go to my bedroom, tell her to come because i gotta show her something. I read this in another forum its called a roofblaster: There are this chocolate eggs with a surprise in it. Previous to all this i open it and change the surprise into a nice and cute note. I know she really really loves this stuff.
Like last time we will lay down on my bed and make out.

Step 3:
I tell her to give me a back massage. When she is doing so i will say "nono you are doing it wrong, I show you how to do it, i give great backrubs", then take her shirt off and work her back.
When i'm finish i will turn the lights off and to not make it weird i tell something like:
Me: Oh, now i cant see anything. Marco!
Her: Polo!!!
Go to her and make out further
Then i will start again massage some attraction points from ears to neck to hips to back of knees and then up again to the thighs and then she should be aroused enough to get in her panties.
Step 4:
Sex

I made this whole stuff up a few minutes ago, so please comment on it and ideas on how to make it better are ALWAY apreciated!

Nighthawk

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So it went like this:

She came to my place. We went to my bedroom an watched a movie. Then i did this roofblast stuff with the choclate egg. It was like she melted down in my arms. We made out for 20 minutes and then I worked my way from her shirt to the panties. then i f-closed her...

But she didnt feel anything, is that normal for virgins? my d*ck cant be the reason, because its pretty big...

But i am happy now

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Dont worry about it, quite normal that she was too nervous too actually relax and focuse on the sex. And in my experience virgins need to be "trained" up.
No worrys, my first virgin was a couple of years back. when we had sex the first time, she didn't seem to enjoy it(apathetic in a way).
Met her about a year ago and had sex again, totally changed, more confident.. and louder!..

Ur right, we had sex for the second time today and she felt more! She definitly needs to be trained up somehow, but now she is totally happy after her first time she wasnt excited about sex. Reason for it was that she didnt feel it, but now... she loves it

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