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Hey guys hoping you can help me out with a problem im having , not really a one-itis thing, a little maybe. Me and my fiance broke up 6 months ago, were together for 3 years, shes 24 im 34 with 4 kids on weekends mostly and she cant have kids. The reason we broke up is more a family thing not liking us together(we got along fine with eachothers parents)her mother really didnt like it , so i think that played a big role in it, not all by any means. I think we both realized where we went wrong.
Anyways we never talked or seen each other since the breakup, and 2 weeks ago she texts to say hi and would like the pictures of are trips together,i told her i would find them and we texted and caught up a bit.Couple days after that she calls me and starts crying telling me how much she loves me and misses me, i told her i missed her to and told her to come over,she did. we spent the night together doing what we always did, dancing drinking and talking caught up on new times and reminisced about old times. She spent alot of the night crying and telling me how much she loved me.We spent the night together. in some course during the night i told her i wanted her back and loved her etc....not all pussy like , but it was an emotional night.She agreed and wanted to get back together,told me she was going to move out. She has a boyfriend shes living with, wich isnt a huge deal same guy tried picking her up while i was with her,shes with him because hes my opposite does everything for her,follows her well you guys know the type.
After she left the next day i got the feeling she felt she had me and started playing the hard to get game(from her texts). So i sent her the following email:
Not sure what to say here...............well here it goes. The other night was GREAT it truly was too long, i said some stuff in the heat of the moment, nothing i regret.We broke up for a reason and im sure that reason is still there, i havent changed , im the same guy. I wish you all the best in youre future, you truly are a great girl . Youre a bigger DORK though.....lol. I hope we can be friends and im Sorry for any Heartache ive caused, i truly am sorry. Be well Jennifer!!!
All the best and Love you always
She emails back:
Tim
I don't really know what to say either...I really find comfort in the fact that you are back in my life. I was instantly pulled to you the moment we met. I wish things would have turned out different as I still believe you are the love of my life. I will never feel like this with anyone else. I agree we broke up for a reason and I know that reason is still there too. I will always love you! I wish nothing but the best for you!!! From what I can see, you will do just fine... Don't be afraid to keep in touch
Love Jenn
From there she texts a couple times every day until last night she was drinking with her boyfriend and friends and phones to come over not telling them, she leaves them and comes over and parks in the back so no one catches her.We spent the night and she cried telling me i was the love of her life and no one could compare to me , i just kept telling her i wanted to stay friends only. during all this time she kept saying she didnt want to get back together but couldnt live without me. i would tell her we would always be friends and she should be at home with her boyfriend.We slept together again that night.
I want to get back together im just not sure how to play this, keep up the hard to get ljbf thing....
P.S she works in an office and i work within eyes distance of her window so she sees me all the time. She also drives out of her way on her way home from work to see if im at home , did that since we broke up and more now.I have moved on but something about this girl always draws me to her.Hope you guys have some good advice
Thanks
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