So my Ex-girlfriend of 4 years and I had been hanging out since we broke up 5 months ago (she broke up with me) . Not a whole lot on account of she lives 2 hrs away, but when ever we do, we end up sleeping together (not having sex but cuddling and kissing, once in a while oral). We went on a vantastic date for V-Day, and we were supposed to go out again tomorrow. Bam! I get a txt today saying she left me a message on facebook saying that shes been doing some thinking, and she thinks that our "friendship" isnt really like a friendship and she doesnt think we can be together, and wants to be just friends damnit haha. Well I'm still way to in love with her to be friends. I want to call her and ask her how all of what we have been doing means nothing to her. Should i do that or should i just say hey its all good, i kinda feel the same way (which would be complete bullshit). Eaither way i'm going to be heartbroken once again, so he it goes... how did you guys handle this sitituation i'm depressed as hell, all i can think about is her. What did you guys do to feel better? I know that this should be looked at as an amazing oppertunity, but i just cant help please and thank you!!

GFTOW.

Then if you really want, come back to this one and make sure you push a little harder.

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This is REALLY simple: Stop kissing her, seeing her and definately stop having sex with her >.< ! Then after some time, VOILA! You couldn't care less about her.

Basically...

I've read several articles from both women and men magazines talking about how the best breakups are the ones where you cut all ties, then re-initiate down the road; several weeks to a month later.

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Well i had somehow similar situation, when my girlfriend wanted to break up with me, but we still were hanging out together only not so often. We still kissed, had sex, but also, not so often, until she said that it's all. The situation didn't satisfy me, so i got back to the somewhat pua level and started to pick up her again, in the way she likes to be picked(from where do i know? She is my girlfriend and was before that), so day after day, and now she says that she loves me. She's jealous when she hears something about my friend-girls so i think it's cool. I wanna to say that, if you think that this is your woman, not another bitch, then do whatever you can do best and do it