Me and my girlfriend have been seeing eachother for about a year now. We still have great sex, but was wondering what can be done to spice up the sex a little bit since we obviously somewhat have each others moves down.

Any good places to try? Or different things to try that we might not be?

I know that that this subject isnt really this forums expertise so any help would be appreciated.

Hello man, this is simple.


Have you ever eaten the same meal for a long time and got sick of it? Sex is the same. Try a different routine. New possitions, try ice, chocolate on her skin, in the shower, closet, kitchen, laundry. Try quickies. Quickies are 5 mins sex. Surprise her and go for it. Living room, kitchen etcetera. I do that with my gf and she is very happy .

Explore the kamsutra my friend, there are nice positions there.



SEE YA!

God quickies are awesome.

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If you haven't tried this already, get her to open up about her fantasy's. I've never met a woman who didn't have some real nasty fantasies. ANd I'm not talking about making love on a bed or roses with candle light. Woman have their own hard core fantasies. Could be anything. Dominance, submission, group sex, sex in public.

SO get her to open up to that,,, wine helps. If you can,,, man, it changes everything.

Goodluck.

try joining the mile high club

If you haven't tried this already, get her to open up about her fantasy's.

I agree with nightrider767...great suggestion. It can be loads (no pun intended) of fun digging into her psyche and seeing what makes her tick sexually. Just be careful, you never know what you mind find.

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Don't go down that road fellas, unless you have an open mind......

Oh, yes...fantasizing can be awesome. I agree though, make sure you can take whatever kinkiness you find in her mind...she might have fantasies about doing a whole construction site of workers or doing all the cowboys in a rodeo, you never know. If you can take it and run with it without being jealous, oh baby can you turn up the heat. Once you find out about some of her fantasies, write some erotic stories for her. And hopefully, she's open enough that she can handle and even feed some of your fantasies too. If she fantasizes about some movie star, tell her to close your eyes and pretend you're him while you're doing her...whisper in her ear what you can imagine that movie star saying to your GF.

If you aren't afraid of toys, get her one of the rabbit-style vibrators...then tie her up one night, blind-fold her, and introduce her to the toy very slowly and in a teasing manner. (For instance, rub a little hot oil on her body and on the toy, turn it on so she can hear it and anticipate what it might be, then start high on her chest and very slowly work it all the way down her body until you get to where it is intended for...LOL.) Those rabbit vibes will make women rip the sheets off the bed! (But, don't worry...no toy is ever a substitute for the real thing, no matter how big or good it is...toys can't whisper in her ear, toys can't hold her afterwards, toys can't show emotions...toys are an augmentation rather than a replacement, kinda like porn is for us guys.) Alternatively, you could hand her a toy and say "Show me how you'd use this", and you just sit back and watch until you can't stand it any longer!

You could get some food that she has never tried but that you think she would like (done this with a Mediterranean platter once)...blindfold her or tell her to close her eyes, then feed her one unusual thing after another. If the texture is nice, rub it down her cheek before you put it in her mouth, or if it smells really good wave it under her nose before you put it in her mouth. Make feeding her stuff she can't see sensual and erotic for her. She'll pounce on her after you're done.

Leave her a trail of nasty or kinky little notes when you know she'll be arriving soon, and let her follow the trail to you in bed or somewhere else convenient for a slow comfortable screw. I once put out a twister game, a bottle of tequila, and a piece of leather lingerie for a GF about 15 mins before I knew she would be there. I then left (yes, left) for an hour. When I got back, she had put the lingerie on and had been waiting for about 45 minutes...she was dripping wet too.

If you can dance well, strip for her and give her a lap dance. Make it gentle and sensual rather than athletic and rowdy...breath your hot breath on her wrists to start (very sensitive to temperature), and then breath your hot breath all over and down her body, and just occasionally let your lips "accidentally" touch her skin.

If she has group sex fantasies, hire a stripper or someone to come watch and take photos while you guys bang it out. If she has any bi-curiosity, have the stripper give her a lap dance (and she might find it turns her on to watch you get a lap dance too.) You could also take her to a classy strip bar, and get a couple's lap dance...some of the strippers really get turned on by this because it's not nearly as common as just a guy, and if the stripper is turned on, you guys will be too.

Take sexy or nude pics of her...have her model for you, and just snap tons of pics. (Maybe she'll take some of you too?) You could easily take them or edit them so that you can't see her face...ask her if she wants to post them on the web anonymously and see what kind of "reviews" she gets.

Sometimes you really don't know what you or her (or both) would be turned on by until you've tried it. Tell her you'll eat her after you cum in her if it turns her on (and if you're not afraid of your own semen, do it)...get in the shower together and pee on each other's leg or something...go parking, that's a good one! Once going down an interstate, I just started taking clothes off, about 5 mins between each piece of clothing (GF was driving)...I didn't say one word the whole time. After about 30 minutes, I was totally nude...she was so hot, we had to make a stop and bang it out in the car. LOL.

I once tied up a woman, blindfolded her, and proceeded to draw a large colorful butterfly on her crotch with kid's water soluble markers. Her pussy was the body of the butterfly, and the wings spanned up onto her lower stomach and down onto her upper thighs, the antenna spiraled up from her clit to curl around her belly-button. I took my time, and innocently made lots of "incidental" genital contact with my hands...she was cumming for about 20 of the 30 mins during all this. She tore me up when I untied her!

And yes, I was married almost 13 years and had a great sex life almost the whole time...sometimes you just have to throw some kink in to keep things interesting. Use your imagination and see what you can come up with!

Gruuve

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Oh, another cool one...take her to a hotel room one night. Doesn't even have to be out of town or anywhere expensive. Something about the different surroundings just makes hotel sex hot.

Beforehand, maybe you could "pick her up" in a bar? Tell her to go there by herself, you come in after she's gotten there and just pretend you don't know her, and pick her up. See if you can get her to "cheat" on her boyfriend...LOL. Make a game out of it.

Here's something cool: Instead of jumping right into sex, get naked and spend a long time touching and kissing. Have her touch you where she wants you to kiss her, then kiss her there. Then you touch her where you want her to kiss you, and let her do it. Take turns until you're both so hot you can't wait any longer.

Even if you've been together a year, there's plenty that you can still discover about each other. Make that discovery process a fun and exciting thing. Sex is adult playtime, it should be fun!

Gruuve

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