When I was first learning how to meet and date women, I met this latin dude. He was NOT the stereotypical "latin lover": no Antonio Banderas looks, not a greezy, slick romantic and NO banana boat dealer act going on either..

In fact, this guy dropped out of school at an early age to support his mother and 6 siblings, because she wasn't physically able to work anymore!

He was the poorest basterd I had EVER seen: not a dime in savings and he actually needed to cut down on his own appetite caus' he didn't had enough money to feed 8 mouths 24/7. He had nothing but the clothes on his back, but..

This guy was having the time of his LIFE! Why?

Because the only things he could get going for himself in those miserable circumstances were his SOCIAL skills and his SOCIAL circle. The man survived on it: he would get a discount in a supermarket here, get some free cigarettes there..life would be so much tougher if he couldn't. He didn’t have money, good looks, status..so the only chance for him to BE someone was through social skills; since social interactions were the only things he had.

Carlos taught me more about using social circles to get what you want then everyone else EVER could..and I started to apply it to the women in my life and BLEW my game into OUTER SPACE!

And listen up all you attraction junkies out there..the MOST COMMON way to WASTE shitloads of your mega valuable time and energy is by getting rid off women who are NOT interested.

We, as men, have an ugly tendency to start talking and keep talking to the cuties we have a love interest in..but the SAME moment it turns out they aren't into us or don't seem like dating material, we LEAVE.

If you're guilty of this crime...slap yourself silly, and the moment you come to your senses..slap yourself again. Because if you would STOP and think about what you're doing, then you would see you were being a dumb ass because..

Who can teach you more about what women REALLY like and REALLY think..then attractive women? If you're completely honest with them and tell them you won't judge them for what they say..you'd be surprised with what you'll find out.

Don't start yelling "yeah, but they tell me I should buy them flowers", because then you're asking the WRONG women..

You wouldn't ask an amateur football player about the secret strategies of the major league, super pro, all-star football teams would you..because how can he know?

Ask attractive, hot women instead, or even better: female seducers who you KNOW date or have dated a lot of men..because they know the game better than ANYBODY.

Befriending them instead of loving them suddenly doesn't sound like such a bad idea anymore when you want to improve your game and improve it FAST, does it? So think about the potential lessons you're just THROWING out the window next time you try and cut all ties with an attractive woman you don't want to date or who doesn’t wants to date you..

Here's a juicy secret: if you befriend a woman and become near best friends with her, not only can you learn stuff from her..but she can also introduce you to all of the girls SHE knows.

Think about it: she has female relatives, neighbors, colleagues, classmates, acquaintances, study buddies, friends, and more..

Do you understand what this means?

It means that by NOT dating 1 woman, you can date MANY women, so apply some friggin' strategical thinking to your dating destiny the next time you meet a woman will you?

And say those women you meet through female friend number 1, say some of them are fun but not dating material TOO..make a female friend number 2 out of 'em and you could meet the females THEY know too, creating a whole pyramid like structure of Social Game!

How can you get a woman to introduce you to who she knows you say?

Three things:

• 1. Women absolutely LOVE to play match makers, to act like Cupid and bring two people together in love..so when you're using this method don't tell them "Hey, introduce me to all your cute friends now" (it doesn't work smarty pants), tell them you have a crush on this or that girl they know..and they can't resist being a stand-in for Cupid…
  
  2. Make it worth her while, and make a deal with her that for every hot, interesting woman she introduces YOU to…you'll introduce HER to a hot, interesting guy in return. This way, she'll keep on introducing you, AND all the women you don't wanna date or that don't wanna date you..can be befriended and used to repeat the whole damn Social Game cycle!
  
  3. Make it FUN for her, and play around with it: go out and make a bet around who can seduce more people for the other sex (where you need to convince men that she's all that and she has to do it with women), go out and let her tell you which hotties are interested in you (you'll be SHOCKED doing this), and on and on..

As a sidenote: the moment you turn up at some place, doesn’t matter WHERE, with one or multiple women…it has an effect. If you hang around with a woman or a group of women, you show other women that you:

• - Are comfortable around women and know how to treat women, and NOT some nervous wussy or creepy stalker guy
  - Are a desirable, sexual man who can CHOOSE who he’ll be with, and something that’s harder to get is simply more satisfying TO get, it makes them jealous and fight over you, etc. (and it’s been proven that there’s a multiplier effect: the more women you’re with when you enter the building, the stronger the effect)
  - Are someone who may already be taken by one of the girl’s you came in with, and humans have a natural tendency to want what others have, to eat the forbidden fruit (it started all the way back with Adam & Eve) because the grass is always greener on the other side, which makes them curious to find out (and it doesn’t hurt your game to suggest that it’s so, jealousy and competition remember?)

And it gets better…

When you're first learning how to seduce the beautiful women you've always wanted to seduce..you can bet your ass that your conversational skills, social skills, your body language and more aren't up to par yet..

So why not PRACTICE new techniques, things to say, routines and more when you're around them, on the phone or on Instant Messenger? It'll allow you to hone your skills thanks to all of your female friends, so I dare to say: I can get WAY more benefits out of befriending women FIRST, and dating THEIR friends last..instead of going straight for the "target" like an overly horny bullet full of hormones.

I'm not even near being through yet..because I can go on and on and rant all day about the jaw-dropping power of using other men for your Social Game, using "contrast" and more..but seriously, my fingers are hurting because of typing my raving rant, lol! So maybe there’ll be a part II soon, we’ll see…