As a little pretext, i have this problem where im attracted to crazy women.

Anyway ive been in a relationship for 18 months, usually im a guy who doesnt get in fights but if they occur i dissolve them, im fine with the inner game all around for the most part, for the first 8 or 9 months everything was fine and im in control, i usually am with crazy chick so i enjoy solving there problems, and i also run on another theory of sensitivty and chivilary which work pretty good, as long as you make them do it back.

But anyway recently i broke up with my girlfriend but we still act like were going out and such, I'm half stuck in one itis though, i gone gone out and picked up several of chicks since then thats not a problem. its just i dont like it im in love with her to much. thats when i lost power, and tried to satisfy her at one point because i didnt know the rule of the more you give them the more they try to take.

The thing is she want to still go out, but she wants to see other people, she doesnt like sex that much so im not worried but theres still the possibility so i hate it. I generally know what to do, and can tell when shes bluffing but still im not positive so i hate the fact. Im basically a wreck right now, i cant control myself, i give it, im fucking head over heels and im fucked, because even if i do get back together im probably going to run into this again, and she was a virgin when i met her, and i dont want anyone else to fuck her because i feel like shes mine.

Basically i dont know what to do, im panicy, i have crazy mood swing, i want her to be a bit more under my contol, i want things to go back to normal, all of this crazyness is making me go insane, and i just dont feel right being with other girls

You might hate this, and it's only my opinion, but:

Be with her 100% or 0%.

If you're anywhere in between, you're going to continue to be a wreck. If her being with you and you alone isn't an option (hanging out with friends doesn't apply) and she still wants the option to fuck other dudes, your best choice FOR YOURSELF is 0%.

Can't remember where I read it, but it's very, very true: Always be willing to walk away.

It'll hurt like balls, but it will be better than dragging yourself through hell until you can't take it anymore and end up breaking it off anyway.

sometimes the best decision you can make for yourself is to just leave it alone and move on, keep in mind theres always going to be another woman that will catch your heart.. or you can keep beating yourself up, build insecurities and fall even harder

agree.

If you had started the relationship open like that, and everything built from there...I would say go ahead. But for a relationship to start as a monogamous relationship and then venture into less and less dedication? That is only a terrible sign. It is time to break away

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