My girlfriend has been acting odd lately. Not odd in a "shes cheating way" (i hope) but bringing up something seemingly important and wanting to vent to me but then retracting it. She also takes little things seriously and gets very bent out of shape over them. We were chilling last night cuddling and just watching tv when we watch this scary movie add she gets all pissed that i made her watch it and turns cold and almost try's to freeze me out. my question is how should i act and should i talk to her about it? I did apologize after i realized it made her mad. I told her I didn't mind that she didn't want to tell me what was on her mind and that if she did I would be there but now i am getting a bit concerned about her mood swings. How should i approach this?

one more thing i'd also appreciate an opinion on is whether to ask her why she has been acting odd and tell her i am a bit concerned.

tell her if she wants to go further in the relationship that you two have...that she needs to start communicating a little more. Say you have noticed that she has had changes in mood, and ask if they are becasue of you, or something that is happening in her life that you don't know about.

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Thanks for the help. I kind of pryed and let her know it was on my mind and i was concerned and it turned out to be trouble with her friends so i feel kind of bad for making her tell and she says she never really talks to anyone about anything which i find kind of weird and a bit troubling. I also feel like i am becoming to mushy and a bit afc. I apologized a bunch for earlier and told her i didnt realize that the friend fight had happened and i was sorry for being a dick. Is that getting more afc-ish? I was a dick but i did apologize a lot and felt kind of weak and she didnt really take well to the apologies.

Yes, that is "afc." Stop apologizing. You felt the way you did because of HER actions and attitude; those feelings were what dictated your actions. Each person in the relationship can have a great impact on the other and their emotional state.

What you did may not have been 100% the best, but it was caused by your feelings, which were caused by her. Tell her that you are there when she needs to talk, and for things to really work...that she NEEDS to be open with you.

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Just do it

Its proubly a bitch test. Find away to pass it.

she's immature, and is looking for a reason to fight...

BECAUSE...

something is going on...

YOU JUST need to know what that "some thing" is.

women start fights because they feel guilty about something:

- they are doing
- they are thinking about doing
- they have done
- they are going to do
- they want to do

...such as ... fucking someone else.

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Just ask. Does sound a bit dodgy if its out of place