So heres the story. One of my biggest sticking points is ex's. Ive got this bad habbit of becomming friends with my ex's and this seems to kill all the sexual chemistry and put me into a "just friends" zone. While I dont have all that much trouble finding new girls, getting back with old ones is somewhere that I really struggle.

Anyway, Ive got an ex who I havent seen or spoken to in exactly 2 years (the last time we spoke was new years eve 2007 and it wasnt pretty....). Anyway I was feeling kinda bored about 2 weeks ago and she popped up on my mind so I decided to txt her and ask her how she was. She wrote back something along the lines of "What the fuck do you want? I cant believe you have the nerve to get in contact me, dont message me again". Mind you this is after 2 years of no communication what so ever so I thought that was a bit full on. I disarmed her totally though by writing back "wow, I wasnt sure if you would reply or not but your message took me by suprize. Im sorry to hear you still hold a grudge against me, I guess I just thought if I could forgive you for everything you did when we were together that you could also forgive me and Im sorry thats not the case. I just wanted to let you know that theirs no hard feelings on my side and I genuinly hope that all is well in your life" So after I wrote that I totally disarmed her and she wrote back "I dont have any ill feelings towards you, I was just suprised to hear from you. How are you?" and we spoke briefly. Anyway she lives interstate now and she txt'd me the other day saying she would be back in town this week and was wondering if we could go out for lunch... her treat.

This girl is a 10, one of the best looking girls Ive ever been with. She's a model, she's been in alot of magazines and since we were together she's got breast implants which makes her look even more amazing. The thing is I dont have any intention of ever getting back with this girl because she's pretty unstable and is a compulsive liar... But Id really love to hook up with her just one last time when she's back in town. How do you think I should play it? How should I re-game her? The first time I gamed her I did it by never returning her phone calls and making her chase after me. But I cant quite re-build the attraction that way since im restricted to only one day while she's down here. Anybody got any ideas?

Dude, I think it's going to take more work than what it's worth considering you're only going to see her once. Move on and find a 10 that's available. If she's really worth it, try to build attraction over the phone and e-mail. See how she reacts to that.

Dude, f*ck her, theres a lot more tens out there. Find one that will give you a fair chance and an open mind, and move on.

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It is hard...because the ex is an ex for a reason. Just be the new HV you, and see if she grabs.

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