This question is more for the girls, than the guys so Bonita, Fly - and ZIP

Get on it.

Back story - The girl, is super fantastic awesome - brings a sense of peace to me I've never known, kisses me like the first time everytime, doesn't let me get away with shit, but supports me and trusts me unconditionally - Genuinely - Loves me, like, make a life together Love... but without being overwelming over bearing or in anyway lame. AWESOME.

She's never let anyone get close to her before me, so a lot of times I have to kind of, explain the motives behind my actions and my intentions with her, so she doesn't think I'm moving too quickly or too slowly.

I'm giving her a present that can be confused for MUCH MORE than what it is meant to be. The gift is a modest, simple, Tiffany & Co RING Its the feminine version of a ring I've had for years that she adores -

The trick here is it's a RING and I want to express to her... that its not a "promise ring" or an "engagement offer" anything like that...
Wording that so it doesnt take away from feelings I have in giving her the gift, but doesnt give her the wrong idea that I'm ready to get married either?

I want to present it in a way, that says "I'm giving you this ring, (not for her ring finger, it will fit her middle finger on the L hand) as a symbol of my full dedication to you as a woman. Not only as a lover, or a girlfriend, or as my best friend but as a sign of my full circle interest in you as a person. I want it to remind you that I'm always on your side, and just a little wrapped around your finger...

Ideas for presentation??

THANKS GIRLS

... AND GUYS! If you've done this before!?

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... yea tricky my dad told me the SAME THING

Not to say I wouldn't... She's major value in my life

Just not tomorrow!

Thanks for the GL wishes, I think I'm just going to have to jump in... see how it goes. haha I'll update

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maybe you could put it on a necklace. That way she sees a ring on a necklace and not "omg a ring!"

And then explain to her that you just think she is special and wanted to get it for her etc....

Tricky thing is mama... she's SO not a ring on a necklace kinda girl...

She's like - get my nails done, femme, lady lady

Its def a ring - updated thoughts?

I mean I'm not saying I don't want to give her a ring, i just need to make it clear that its not THE ring... without taking away from the fact that it is ... in truth, A ring.

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Hmmm that makes it tougher...

Maybe if you present in in a way like "I saw this ring and I thought it was fitting for you. So I wanted to get it for you." Explain it before she opens the gift or before you present it. That way she won't have the initial reaction such as "omg it is a ring what type of ring is it." By time she sees what you got her she already know you bought it because it reminded you of her and you thought she'd like it etc.

If you want to get her a present I would go with a bracelet. Doesn't even have to be something expensive. They got all different types of bracelets out there now. You know the kind that have like different symbols on them. IE: Lips, smiles, etc.

Be creative with it so everytime she looks at it. It will remind her of the good times and whats to come.

^Look I can be very Romantic!

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What if you hand it to her casually without any packaging or any sense of formality? And then tell her how special she is to you and whatnot and that you felt like getting her this ring that'll fit on her middle finger. I'd follow that up with, "I know it's a RING, but if you get the wrong idea I'm gonna spank you. "

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I'll post later how it goes... more than likely under a LR

Thanks Friends!

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So for those of you waiting for the follow up...

She was totally cool about it! Didn't have to explain a thing! She was happy surprised apreciative and cried. Immediately put it on her middle finger and said i'm sure it's meant to go here like yours right?

She's dreamy

Thx for your help guys (and ladies)

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uhhhh in what context did you get this fatherly advice? Because I try to look back, and I can't recall being sat down and told anything like that!!

hobbit....be myyyy daddy.


Oh, and there are many MANY presents you can give to symbolize you love and affection that are NOT a ring. I would go with any other option.

If you are going to do it regardless, then just casually throw it on her bed when she isn't home. That way you can give it to her indirectly, and she will never suspect you are requesting anything. Just a cute present from you to her. She may even call you in there to see how it looks "on." Then seduce your face.

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