okay so ive been doing well in the field, like real well actually, ive turned my life around and now it comes down to this point, i have at least 5 women realy interested in me, some i like more then others some i live for a certain quality. but now... i dont like lying to them and i try not to, they have never asked me about other girls so i havnt had to lie. anyway how do i keep them around and turn our relationship into a MLTR and have them not think im some player??? cause its hard giving them all attention and juggling them... it stesses me out please help[!

Stop treating it as juggling; your not 'dating' any of these girls, your simply a single guy having fun.

You have to evaluate this...do you definately want a MLTR? Or are you happy with lots of women.

If MLTR is for you, obviously you have to choose your girl, and go out with her obviously.


I personally would have no problem being in a relationship, and still chatting and kind of...'half-gaming' those other girls. Flirt with them. Flirting is no crime, and it keeps your value, and makes that girl your with want to hold on to you. She has a real catch if all the girls are after you right?

As long as your not actively sleeping with them, or making out whatever (depending on your views on drunken mistakes, although i wouldn't condone it) then there is no problem.

The thing about PUA, is that you have girls, you choose the one you want, yet when a relationship ends you have no problem starting a 'new thread' as it were.

Stop worrying about the others. Get the girl you want, if it ends, they'll still be there if you've done it right. If not, its not like its hard to replace? Thats the game.

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Using situational openers?
Throwing yourself in?
Able to flow conversationally from every good or bad comment they make?
That's the way its done.
The only game is natural game.

Honesty? Either you tell them that you only have one girl or you admit that you have more than one.
Some girls accept that if you tell them early on.