I've been dating the girl of my dreams for a little over a year now and a few months ago I moved away for college while shes still in high school. So far I am not doing so good as far as not college gaming goes.

I just can't help myself. I didnt think it would hurt much but now I realize it's tearing us apart slowly. I really do want to change and focus on the relationship but its hard with everything going on down here and her not being here. Plus I feel like I have dug myself so deep of a hole that i cant find my way back up.

I need help on building things back up. Any advice would help thanx!!

Man. You need to see the bigger picture.

Being a PUA is not the solution to everything. It will not automatically change your life for the better.
If you are happy with your girl then try to keep her.
You have 3 choices as far as I am concerned:
1. Stick with her and dont game anyone else
2. Drop her and game others
3. Cheat on her

It is up to you.

Long distance relationships that are for long times never work. So you better get out now before things get real bad.

but thats not really what im asking for. Im asking for advice and ways to get the relationship healthy again.

Sry i forgot to mension that we see each other on the weekends sometimes I only moved like an hour and a half away

i think gaming other girls can actually help your relationship with your current girlfriend. you dont have to take it all the way with the other girls, but u can flirt and stuff with them.

false jurupa. I've lived the past 6 years of my life maintaining many long distance relationships. parents, friends, women.

They can work, you just have to understand how they work, you have to be an independent person, and you have to be an understanding / patient person.


My advice Camo: you are young. sometimes it is hard to pull yourself out of the emotional commitment and comfort you have with the highschool sweetheart. But if you are in college, and your urges are to game other people, then be HONEST with your girlfriend. Tell her that you have been drifting and that as of right now you just need some time to GROW.

Or, if you truly want to maintain the relationship, then you are going to have a lot of effort and work ahead of you. It will all be worth it in the end.

That effort and work is going to be specific to your relationship with her, but the general advice i could give:

create a phone dynamic - communication is key

set times when you will be seeing eachother again - this will always give you two something to plan and build excitement

play mutual games

do video chat

There are a lot of things you can do to maintain your relationship. Just know, that no matter what you TRY, if deep down you would rather sarge and play the field and be a bit wild, then nothing you do will work. The opposing urges will just clash.

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