Thanks for the comments.
I realized that having alpha males around you is very important. Most of the people around me are too much of idiots, ones who go married to wifes who cheated on them.
Thats why getting even small comments or interaction with people with some knowledge makes me gain confidence in my views as they match.

How do people like you exist?

Your girlfriend MARRIED SOMEBODY ELSE and yet she's STILL your girlfriend.


Is this even real life?

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If you actually read the previous messages, you see that she married behind my back without me knowing.
When i did find out and went beserk she was already filing for divorce. My head was not right due to PhD and me running my own business.
Ofcourse I am not with her anymore.

Troll

You don't get it.

You can't date a normal girl and then suddenly she wakes up with a brain aneurysm and decides it's a good idea to MARRY SOMEONE BEHIND HER BF'S BACK. I don't care if she was forced by parents or held at gunpoint, this is not the kind of shit you go through with unless you're batshit crazy to begin with.

My point is, you talk about being surrounded by idiots who get married and then cheated on while being the guy that has had his girlfriend get married to someone else.
The one thing you have in common with the people you mention is that you fail (or simply don't want to acknowledge) the red flags until the very second disaster hits.

You need to pay more attention to what kind of person you're dating and if they should ever hold the gf title.

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I know my place. It's me on top of the world.

My in depth texting & dating guide.
There's no such thing as shit-tests.
How to keep a girl.

If indeed this story is true, this guy must be suffering from Aspergers or the most in denial guy on the planet.

FYI, I do have aspergers syndrome - which for your knowledge has nothing to do with "denial". Also, I am not denying anything - yes I admit the I was with wrong person and she did not just wake up and decide to do get married.
I only posted to see what advice i'd get to get my self confidence back.

Well then...Its nice to know my diagnostic skills are as sharp as they are.

Find somebody who deserve you.