Yesterday the girl I've been dating for the past two month gave me the we should be friends speech, over text. My response was simple fine, and then I asked what had changed, since she had so eagerly wanted to come take care of me (I have been down with man flue for 7 days straight - ain't pretty).
Her response was that she had been in doubt about us and had been getting really drunk and made out with other guys both friday and saturday.
My response was that she shouldn't feel guilty as we wasn't monogamous yet (And I haven't been neither).

Now to the important part. I need to get my mentality back on track. We have both been with others apparently and that should be fine. But my mind just started to butt fuck me.

Deep down I know she wasn't the one for me, and to be honest, she is in the low end scala for me compared to what kind of girls I pull home from nightclubs and bars.

But she threw the friend-zone card in my face. And the real problem is, how do I handle being around her? Due to activities at university (tutoring), I'm forced to cooperate with her in a group for 14 people and in a group of 3 people including me. And we are going on a whole weekend party trip with 50 tutors this weekend.

So any advice on how I should behave around her and how I should start being a man? I feel like a wuss now and mostly just want to quit the tutoring, so I don't have to talk to her (my last year at university, so people would understand due to the heavy amount of work required at last year).

But on the otherside, I ain't a quitter. But some advice, peptalk and boots to my ass would be appreciated!

there is no friend-zone

be professional, and if you need to talk to her do it in a respectful and proper way just as you would with any other, you mention a party, then have fun and if you can meet more girls do it, just don't do it tending to give her any jealous type thing to her, meet girls there to have fun and if she tries to engage a conversation with you, be a man and talk to her but just the minimum and don't show any interest in her but the usual casual talk that you would have with any girl.

You weren't compatible, what's the big deal? Stop taking these things so personal.

You're feeling a lesser man because some chick's idea of the right guy for her isn't you? If you want to learn how to become a man, the first step is to detach from your ego and learn to keep it in check. Your self-worth should not depend on the validation of others.

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