Bit of a weird one. I met a girl at work, we got along very well and got together and were a couple for about 5 months. It was all good and did some amazing things together. She started a new job and hated it, she hit depression as she had so much devastating situations happen to her. She was then really miserable with me, I broke up with her as I couldn't do it anymore. It was a weird break up as she was devastated about it, but I couldn't continue being strung along as it made me miserable. A month after I spoke to her and she said she didn't want a relationship and that she was sorry as her 'head wasn't fully in it' whilst we were together. I then found out that she had started seeing someone else she had a fling with at University; he has now ditched her already.

Where it is gets weird is that she has rejoined the place where I work and I see her everyday and we have he same friends. I tried to say hello to her but she ignored me.

I want to know how to play it, I want to test myself to see if I can get her grovelling for me and begging me to get back with with her.


Could anyone assist on some techniques in how to pull this off?

I'm going travelling in 4 months and still hooking up with other girls so I'm not looking to get with anyone else properly. I just want to see if can be done.

Thanks

Uh, this one is way over.

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Any tips on what I should do?

Yes, talk to women who acknowledge your existence.

There will be many.

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She is currently ignoring every person we work with and doesn't speak to anyone

Why?

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Before we left we were a very close group. She left and didn't stay in contact with anyone. The people she was close with I am now very close with. In addition to this people who I'm not close with have tried to say hello and she also ignores them

Okay.

Give it a bit more time so she is more comfortable in the new environment.

she cheated on you with another guy, which IMHO, is a bad sign. It means you weren't doing something right in the intital relationship, and she may not want to go back to you because of that reason.

your best bet is to provide social proof. Most guys hear "social proof" and think, "oh hell yeah, Imma gonna bring a bunch of my bros with me, or girls who have friend-zoned me and that's social proof."

No.

Social proof is being seen with a woman, and leaving with a woman who looks at you like a piece of meat, one on one.

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i got with her when I finished university, I wasn't interested in having a girlfriend there as I had too much fun being single. I wanted it to work with her and I let her take control and she lost interest as I was too invested. I have learnt from this mistake now as I was too available and would have done anything for her - big mistake.

I am doing the right things by not looking at her and acting like im bothered. I am having a laugh with everyone in the office in front of her which I did anyway before she came back to work.

In about two weeks she will start coming for nights out with us as a group, I want to know how to play it. I'm going to act like I'm not bothered and will be having a laugh and will appear happy.


I know how to act differently know if things ever did progress as I became a very weak person with her.

Any further tips on how to salvage the situation?

Why are you doing this?

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To test my abilities

You're trying to be spiteful. That's why.


That, or you're an idiot. Specifically because you think your abilities have anything to do with getting one particular woman all over you.
That's like winning one hand in poker and treating it as if it meant something.

I think it's likely the first though.

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You are suggesting let go?

Yes.

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Wow, so he ought to 'proof' himself to a woman who'd cheated on him?

GTFO of here.