Hi,

To give a bit of background, I was dating a girl for 5 years, where her culture requires her to be married at young age.
After 6 months of dating she and her family were begging me to marry her.

Now, after 5 years, she went back home for a holiday which she usually does 2x a year.
The only difference is, this time, when she came back she was acting a bit weird.
Then she told me we need to split up because her family doesn't accept me because I have wasted 5 years and have not even told my family about her.

After a lot of investigation from my side, she finally told me that her parents forced her to agree to marry the son of a family friend and they are getting married in 1 weeks time. I obviously lost my cool and went and took a crazy cursing route. I literally did everything for her, we both agreed we would marry this december.

I spent over £10k on her in the last 2 weeks, sending her parents dowry, gifts, and for her engagement ring. And all she had to say was, I cant go against parents will.

Let me reiterate, i really lost my cool, i even contacted her short fat ugly "soon" to be husband to let him know shes being forced, and he could not give 1 shit.
She met him for about 4 hours with her mum, and in that time he told her (exact words)
"Lets begin our love story"
and also told her that he will lose weight for her after wedding.
Also, her husband does not know that shes not a virgin, which is extremely important in their culture. My "ex-gfs" mum is making her get hymen surgery done.

Excuse my french, but how the fuck do i play this out now?
She is going for the marriage registration next week!

Let it go. You knew what kind of family and culture that you were dealing with when you got involved. Acting in desperation isn't going to get you the girl. Everything that you do from this point on will be out of desperation.

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fuck man, 5 years :S
And her parents were fine with me to marry her, until 4 weeks ago!

Also i can totally ruin her whole wedding if i tell her husband about me sleeping with her.
Which I really wanna do to f**k her over, but she threatened she will tell my family everything and report me to police :S.

Is there possibility to fuck her after she gets married?

Of course it's possible. People do cheat. That being said...why would you want to? Something didn't work out for you, so you want to fuck over the next guy. Be better than that.

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nah, its not fucking over the other guy.
I want to fuck her, so that shes feeling like a piece of shit for rest of her life.

My first steps of achieving me fucking her later on are.
*Ive removed her from facebook etc
*Minimise any communication
*If she doesnt message me ill msg her with a brief msg and try set a date for drinks/dinner
*On the second/third date i meet her ill go in with a kiss.

I mean, even when her marriage was all agreed, i fucked her about 5 times in a week.
Even 2 days before she went home (last thursday) I fucked her 2x that night.

So i wanna make sure i can do this later after her husband takes her "fake" virginity.

What i regret is me losing my temper and going "bitchy" on her after she gave me the news.
Knowing this, would it still be feasible for me to do her again?

Damn. You are a pretty fucked up person. If that's the route you want to go, you're pretty much on the wrong forum.

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and ur saying shes not fucked up for what she did?
Even though she has my credit card which she could have used to run away from the forced marriage?

We're not talking about her actions in which you have no control over. We're talking about your actions and you have control over those. If she is a fucked up person, so be it...that doesn't mean that you have to be one.

That being said...I'm done. You're going to do what you want because you're emotionally weak right now. No amount of logic is going to override your emotional issues.

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lol i agree i am emotionally weak SPAM.
and i also agree with you, "let it go".

Apologies for expressing my madness!

Guess its better to just focus on myself as theres more out there!

You didn't even introduced her to your parents.

That's enough and I can understand her partially.

Anyway, if she was so much in love with you, she would've refused the offer, obviously you didn't give her enough stability and certainty to decide to stay with you.

I have an indian coworker, woman, she married at 33 and her family was mad because her brothers could not marry till the youngest married (and she was the youngest), so it was a tragedy.

Yet, she decided her husband when the time came, even under all of this pressure.

OP, honestly though, what did you expect?

A relationship will never work out when the people involved are not mature enough to stand up to their parents' absurd ideologies. Much more so when they actually agree with them.

If what her parents want is more important to her than what she wants, well, she's getting exactly what she deserves.
And in all honesty there's really no need for you to be fucking up her life. She's doing an excellent job at that herself.

Be the better man. And the next girl you date, how about picking someone that's normal?

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