Hello gents,

Got a question about a girl playing hard to get, but since its my first post here is a bit of a background:

I ended a 2.5 year relationship four months ago and I am currently single and dating. I've been with few women in last four months, mainly thru Tinder or vacation travel. At the end of the day I found that seeing multiple girls for few weeks and then switching to new ones is not what I enjoy. I am looking for a long term partner, someone I could spend my time with and enjoy life.

There is a girl that I've been chatting up with once in a while in last eight months, but since I had a GF I didnt take it anywhere. About two months ago this girl found me on Facebook and added me as a friend. I accepted and asked her oit on a date, after few weeks we went out, and we have been seeing each other few times a week. In the beginning she said she just wanted to hang out as friends, then few weeks in she told said she had unresolved feelings for her ex that broke up with her a year ago. We still see each other fairly often and few nights ago went dancing and it escalated to some kissing but no sex.

Now I told her that I liked her and wasnt looking to be just a friend, I also told her that I am currently dating and she is not the only one I am seeing, so being very clear where I stand, but not sure if opening all cards is a good idea.

So long story short, Ive been hanging with this girl for last 4 weeks, and all I got is some steamy make out time. At this point not sure if I should leave her alone or continue trying.

Any advice is appriciated.

Sun

Why is this in the relationship subforum? You're not in a relationship nor having relationship issues.

Secondly, this is not her playing hard to get. This is her not being very interested/interested enough, but also her kinda trying to force some interest.

It's not gonna lead anywhere pleasant.

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Every one needs a goal.
More than enough time to cultivate the 'Friend Zone'.
This is her arming the ejection seat.
And you stopped before sex why? To tell her how you 'feel'?
You are correct, that's a terrible idea, but fuck sake you already did it.

Express your sexual intent and attraction all you want. That is perfectly fine.
But, don’t let her know you want more than that.

That's the only thing that can possibly plunge this out of the toilet.

She's not playing hard to get, you are.

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I just realized I only read the first paragraph of the first post, so you can pretty much probably disregard my first post.

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Some good feedback here.

I was dropping her home, and she lives with her brother, we made out before her door step so sex wasnt really an option.

Anything I could do at this point to up her interest?

One more thing, she did ask me few days ago what was the longest time some one kept me on my toes, so she is fully aware what she is doing. Also she commented that I prob like her cause we havent had sex yet.

We might see each other this Sunday, however I am about to loose interest as I am not getting enougj back to continue trying.

Sun

Get sexual with her. Make it abundantly clear your goal is to pump jack her like a boss.

Example; "If you were here right now I would tear your clothes off and shove you onto my bed and have my way with you. But you’re not, so . . . rain check?"

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Daem ok, this I like Next time she txts I will use that, will keepvyoy updated.

Please keep suggestions coming, I am gonna try whatever is not illigal on this girl.

Sun

Why do you need to wait? Example #2; "Just the thought of that sexy body of yours makes me stiff..."

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Done! Lets see wtf happens

She just replied "Good morning!"

Wtf lol I am gonna ignore her for now, cant think of comeback since she just ignored my txt

"If you were here right now I would tear your clothes off and shove you onto my bed and have my way with you. But you’re not, so . . . rain check?"

Oh, she didn't ignore it. Did you send the next one?

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Just did!

"Just the thought of that sexy body of yours makes me stiff..."

Ok this is getting interesting. She might freak out and bail, lets see.

I will keep updating the post if there is progress.

Sun

If she bails, you have your answer. If she doesn't follow through.

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It's been a few hours so either she didn't reply, or you're balls deep by now. I hope the latter!

God daem it, just realized I should of taken her to my place or hotel after we made out!

Stupid Tinder makes it too easy and nums the skills when girls get harder.