OK this is not regarding certain situation but rather more philosophical.

1st let me clarify: I don't mean what makes women feel attraction, sympathy or sexual desire. I mean what makes them fall in love, so they are willing to get committed in RS by themselves and they introduce the idea?

I think all people sooner or later get in love with someone, an depending their maturity, experience and boundary skills their love is being true and justified or ... well not true and coming out of place of neediness.

So saying that means that some women probably will fall in love when they get just see a good looking model like guy. Or a guy who can support them financially. Kind of like a teenage girl falling in love with a boys band celebrity.

Well... this question of mine is not regarding those girls/women.

I mean the mature women, the real ones, those who have values, beliefs and know where their place in life is.

So I'll be glad to hear your thoughts on that... When and how in the brain of the women the mechanism of being committed gets triggered?

Is it when lots of time passes being with someone?

Is when a man gives her an unforgettable sex experience?

Is it when she invest most of her time, money and body regarding the man?

Probably it is a mixture of those...

And if there is anything else - what is it?

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dont u have female friends?

nice answer.

Of course I do...

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Nah, I mean I think if you look at your female friends relationships, you'd see the point that they were committed.

Are you a "catch"? Like, would women be proud to call you their bf...can a woman see herself being with just you, and do you have the qualities that would make her stick around?

Yea - I perceive myself as a catch, but IDK how others perceive me. Women usually like spending time with me, when I give the attitude that I don't care much. However with progression of knowing each other (months ahead) feelings start to emerge from my side, but not always from theirs. So when I start putting feelings into our acquaintance, then things start to go bad...

Seems like I miss something on how to make them want to be committed...

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Yeah. You're trying to hard. And you're making them a priority.

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why I do that...

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how would anyone here know why you do that? sounds like you just need to relax, let her get to that point at her own pace and if you do get there first don't get pushy.

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1. Orgasms.

2. Being emotionally centered (important for attractive women, you can punch walls all day if you want to date ugly women).

3. Meeting emotional needs/bonding.

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Right answers...wrong order.

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The orgasms will release a hormone called oxytocin, which makes women feel close/bonded to you.

So I guess it could work as 1 or 3, lol.

Either way, if you are good in bed they will keep coming back.

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Orgasms for a woman are a bonus. You can give them to a woman, but it won't keep them around like 2 and 3.

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i dont think even they could answer that.

evolutionary psychology might help with these kinda of questions.

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