So my girlfriend of a few weeks wants to sleep with me but freezes whenever i try to take off her pants. She said today that she would regret it if she slept with me. Im thinking ill start some kind of push pull escalation on her now to increase the tension. This is her virginity im talking about. I need a way to get past the jeans and get her out of her head because she starts overthinking when it starts getting heated.

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Omnia Mutantur Nihil Interit

Everything changes, but nothing is truly lost.

It's outta of your control and you're at the mercy of her comfort levels with it

The real question is...

Why the heck would you get into a relationship with someone you don't even know intimately? I presume lack of options but now you're eating that poop sandwich you created for yourself...Does she give BJ's?

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Hmm yeah probably. I just felt that she was emotionally worth it. Nope she doesnt. Shes a total rookie. I can do something about the comfort levels though so im not entirely screwed. Plus i definitely do not want to be one of those losers that stay with a girl for years before managing to sleep with her.

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Omnia Mutantur Nihil Interit

Everything changes, but nothing is truly lost.

You could always talk to her and tell her it is affecting the longevity of your relationship. Be willing to walk away and mean it
Well man, let's update this thread in a month shall we?

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I'm always surprised by this kind of questions... With the small number of virgins I hanged out with there's never been any problem, the shiest one had me try only three times before we could do the deed. So I'm wondering: are you hanging out with christian fundamentalists, or are you just so thirsty the girl sees you coming as if you're gonna drill her a third hole with your D?

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We do what we have to do in order to do what we want to do.

Yeah, poor handling of token resistance is usually a culprit, too.

Of course, she will resist a little since it's her 1st time, but really, suck on her neck and nipples and slip that sausage in there. But don't give up because she is pushing you away a little. (Please don't go overboard and rape her)

No blow jobs though? Usually a bad sign of frigidinity/religion

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I don't think many men will go straight for a cunnilingus on their first time. Might be wrong though.

Also, from experience virgins don't give BJ. You teach them how to give a BJ.

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We do what we have to do in order to do what we want to do.

Teach her, he should.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

She's testing you man.

If she says " I think i'll regret sleeping with you " and you flinch or say "omg why", you then validate her feeling because you're fueling it by being inquisitive or becoming insecure. She'll think a part of you agrees with her and why should she sleep with you if even you (the guy she'll be sleeping with) thinks she'll regret it as well.

It comes down to sexual confidence. Next time she says something similar just smile and say " Nah.. We're going to have a great time". Deciding to lose your virginity isn't and easy thing for a woman. She'll need your help leading her through it. And your confidence in your ability to give her great first experience will be a great deal of help.

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