Hey there. Ill keep it as short as possible.
Been in a relationship for 1.5 years all fine, just some fighrs here and there..the usual
Now this weekend my girl said her family was going away so we would have the house for ourselves and that she wanted to see me a lot. Thursday she tells me she wanna call me to organize,I told her i was watching the game (nba finals) with my friend that I would call her in a bit. When i finally got to her she was really mad and treated like shit on the phone ,neither she repied my text.. Ye my bad i shoulda told her to fuck herself and talk to me when she was feeling it
Back to the next day she got out from work and calls me super excited, and I fuck up again, after she told me all about her wonderful day I started asking why she had treated me like shit yesterday.. She acted like..what you talking about so i got even more mad and stopped replying to the phone.. She hunged up on me. Later that night I went to her house to surprise her( ye..another fucking mistake jesus what is going on with me) and she was super angry and didnt want to reconciliate.. We argued then i said im sorry for today after she said she was sorry for yesterday but she was still very mad. I get out, and today I told her if she wanted to hung she tells me ye. But she was going the next day with his family at eleven in the morning. I misunderstood and thought she told me to at her home at 11pm. When i got there she tells me she isnt there, she is dining with some friends from high school. I am super fucking mad... She said she wanted to see me a lot and when we have a super small window because she is going to see her family she goes to see this fucking friends... I told her i was at her home and she told me she would come back home 1hr 30.. I said ok gb cya, and then she asked me to comeback and stah over and i didnt replied. Im still at her place in my car.. Dunno if ditch her or stay and sleepover with her ot go to my place
If i stayed i will be in a bad mood and well get into another argument.. And too much fighting aint good...
Yesterday when she was so mad she said she needed time to think about it l.. I thought she would cut me loose but today she was super nice to me... Now I kinda feel the impulse of cutting her loose..

Try to be mature about it. COMMUNICATE

If a girl is disrespecting you, nip it in the bud right there and then. Do NOT back down (Unless she has some good points)

In my opinion, the key to a healthy respectful relationship is to be willing to walk away from her when you are in a situation you KNOW she is being unreasonable. They will LOVE you for it and it will solidify things much more.

The day you let them get away with it, the more they do it and then things get really bad when you don't punish bad behavior. (Just look at these thread o this section and see for yourself)

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I have a suggesion regarding arguments and her being mad:

It is difficult to put down in words, but the idea is to act like 'i know you do not mean that'. Never buy into that bullshit. She wants you to be mad at her, she wants drama. You have to act it like you don't care about her being mad. It is like you are giving this message: i love you as well. But do not do that verbally. She will soon give in to your cool dont-give-a-fuck vibe

This does not work if:

A) More than 50% of fault is yours
B) she is clearly disrespscting you and/or being agressive, then freezout

I.e. You can only take advantage of it if she is just bitching becaus of her random emotions

I agree with Peb regarding communication.

However if you haven't been properly communicating for 1.5 years, you won't have any luck implementing that now. So it's a good solution, for future relationships.

In my opinion your fights are petty. And petty fights are usually signs of a relationship dying out. These are not "I/she really fucked up and we had a fight". These are "I'm sick of his/her presence" fights. When the stupidest shit annoys you to infinity and beyond.

Neither of you seem to be particularly fulfilled.

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