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Ok i will try to be as short as possible,
I have been dating this girl, year and a half, we r close everything is good, i meet her family she meets mine, we call an engagement, and we decide to make a little celebration envolving both families, everything was going fine, one day before the engagement party, she drops out of earth, no calls, no texts, no reply at all, her mom later on that night calls me says she is in the hospital, and that i have to call the party off, so i did, now for the next month onward i have been trying to get in touch with her and all i have is ignoring from her side, after a mo th of trying to reach her, to see whats happening, her sister answers me and tell me she diagnosed with cancer and she says she no longer want me to be a part of my life, when i try to know further what kind of cancer etc... They shut me off, a week later i call her again after seeing her post shit on snapchat through a common friend, took 5 calls for her to answer, then when i ask her what is it, she says she likes to keep it for herself, and that she is sick, and she doesnt want anyone to be with her now, but the thing is, my friend tells me she post snapchat all the time at work or in her house, doing random stuff, like there is absolutely nothing, and my friend tells me she ddnt tell her anything about her being sick, idk where to go from here, and if i am going to end it, she burrowed money from me 3500$, and everybody is asking me whats happening and i dnt know what to say, i tried contacting her family again but even they dont answer me, is this her saying i no longer want to be part of this? But our last call she stated once her life gets back to normal she wants nothing more than to be with me, but right now she wants space, but if she wants space why does she keep posting stuff on social media
WTF! It was over a long time ago, you just failed to pick up on the signals.