What are the things that ruin one.

Come on, just come right out and describe your situation. Multiple threads on how to fix one relationship. How abt just saying what you're going through?

Being a lazy bastard without an ability to search what he wants, on forum.

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In my experience, that you are too ambitious to start off with(this is also true, according to studies)and you essentially manipulate her, until she wakes up. OR, that she is manipulating you(and women can easily do that).

It's like you go from alpha to charlie in 9 months(lazy, not independent before something really serious, lack in social skills, bad liar, emotional unstable etc.), basicly men tends to adept new traits(those that pops up or was hiddin away).

That is the thing. You are not in PuA for relationship, only to fuck(this is what everything is build upon). Mastering relationship is far harder and as you will show your hand and good cards comes from a good life, lots of experience and patience with yourself to start off with. Most importantly, there are no guidlines as you are used to. This is a realm of uncontrollable factors, but just flaws of being a human(or the better).

Becoming more invested in your partner, AND relationship than you are in yourself.

Forfeiture of your individual self as a man. You don't hear women coming out of a LTR, going to a blog because they forgot how to get laid.

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