Hello everyone, first post on this forum after presentation, as announced I am going to narrate my story hoping to find some advice that can help me to meet my target.

She is a very young Brazilian girl (teenager) studying in Australia I am a 21yrs old Italian backpacker.
We met in her last night of holidays and 2 hours after we were having beautiful sex in a field, under the sumptuous Australian star system.
We had a long and awesome chat up to the dawn when we allow ourselves some sleep, hugging each over. Later that day she leaves to go back to school (in australia).

I will see her 2 weeks later in a sort of official date showing myself with some flowers (nothing exaggerated) she seems to appreciate.We walked together, she took me in her favourite place, I had dinner in her house and when her mother went to sleep she makes me a blowjob...everything is going great!

We met some more times after that (not as much as I wanted because of her school) and are times coverd in pure magic: quality sex(with some levels up like sharing some fantasies), great chats, many funny activities eccetera eccetera...than disillusion, spellbound broken: she starts to make herself even harder to meet excusing herself with things like "I am too tired" or "friend birthday" while I want to see her more and more! We have an episode in the bed not exactly happy (short duration) but she said she doesn't mind cause she reached the orgasm anyway..but things are getting worse: just after she puts on the table all a discussion about she doesn't want a serious relationship because she ll have to go back in brazil in december and she doesn't want to be the reason for keeping me stuck and not travelling. I'm not happy of what she was saying but I agreed to her conditions (manly about respect of spaces) and she agreed mine (no cheating and max honesty). Even worse: I find her keeping a list of the guys she had a sex relationship with, even occasional and of course I am on that list (that I interpret as an immature approach to love considering her young age) luckly as last one. She keeps responding normally to messages and calls and she keeps saying she wants to stay with me, that she likes me...but I feel her going away.

What I want guys is to be indispensable to her and wherever there is a choice she choses me no way for the friend birthday.

I also tried to get involved in her social events (like the mentioned birthday) but nothing..is "space invasion".
Bullocks. I think she doesn't like me as much as I like her and I want to fix this

Thanks guys for your help
Cheers

How old is she?

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Things were going great, you started to get attached because of all dopamine filled pleasurable experiences you were having with her and she began to get unattached. Opposites attract man. After the initial "honey moon" faze that can last anywhere from 2 weeks to 6 months depends on the pace things go one person is going to have deeper feelings for the other. The person with the deeper feelings will be the one that becomes attached. The one more detached will be leading the relationship. Women do not like being in this position and so they will seek a "leader" in someone else.

Women attach by nature. They attach to their homes, their children, and husbands. Men detach to go out and hunt, gather, and provide. You take her from her nature and she will resent you. You have to lead and unless you lead this will be what happens every single time.

Give her some space. For the next three times contact is had between you let her be the one that initiates it. Regardless of how long it takes. Pull back a bit, and she'll begin to push a bit more.

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She is 16. Thank you

I m worried because that list I mentioned...I don't know but seems like a nymphomaniac-bordeline thing that concerns me especially combined with the let's-not-take-it-seriously discussion... this make me think I have to act quickly before she goes with someone else

Opinions?

And this is why you're in this position. You keep trying to fix things. Sometimes the greatest fix is to leave it alone. Imagine you had a cut, how would continually trying to "fix" help the cut? It would only make it worse. You leave it alone and it will heal.

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Ok I will, thanks again... can you find any other mistake I made in my story?

You do understand the concept of underage, do you not?

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Stop smothering the poor child with your neediness. What the fuck are you gonna do at a sweet sixteen birthday party any way? Hang the pinata? You are a grown ass man, she is still a child. Yet you give up all your power.

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Men, I consider that relative.
In my country is perfectly legal and absolutely not unusual for a 21yrs old man have a relationship with a 16yrs old. Either in brazil. In Australia is maybe unusual but still legal.
Considering that this girl is more mentally aged than many Australian or British girls in their 20s I met before...I am sorry, with all respect, but in this case you are misunderstanding the concept of underage...because she is not
Apart that have you got any advice? (if the fact doesn't hurt yours morality of course)

You are this needy for a 16 year old? Laws aside you're a grown man and a high school chick is telling you to calm down?

Wtf is happening these days

Needy is as needy does.

If everyone is giving you the same advise, that your being needy, do you think MAYBE you ARE being needy?

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Guys please don't start being obtuse: you are not here, you don't know me or her, you are not in the position to judge. Plus we come from different cultures and backgrounds.
Stick to the topic please or go somewhere else if for some reason it doesn't match with your morality but please I am no here to hear any morale but help to get what I want and be happier with her and hopefully make her happier. Fact is there was nothing to calm down and that's is what concerns me...like if she said that just to create an excuse to leave me.
16 or not is the first time it happens that a girl asks me for a non serious relationship: usually is the opposite. Yes I got it, thank you. Just don't like sterile comments. And sorry, I didn't get in the first place the slang you used

I will try to make my comments more sarcastic and humorous, if I can.

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But there WAS something to calm down.. You're way too into her. Even you said so

Juicy pussies are easly making you addicted. Welcome to addiction club. So you have 2 options, whether you cry and beg for sex or go fishing.

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