A friend tell me to write his story so if someone can help .

His girlfriend broke up with him before 2 months, they had brawls almost every week.
She told him that she lost herself and she cant continue. He was very pressing with her
dont allow her to have fb etc.

Anyway, he chased her for almost a month after that. He sent flowers, asked her to go in a date to speak
and all that.
They went in a date and speaked but she didnt change her mind. After this he left her and went no contact for 1 month.

Now its after 1 month of no contact until she contact him, she sent him a msg to congratulate him for his win of a kickboxing match. My friend is now a champion, he just tell her thanks and nothing more.
She also liked his photos in the facebook, the photos of the match .....

She sent him msg before 4 days just for congratulations , he still love her and ask if he can do something.
Actually he want to contact her again , its a good idea???

So did you contact her yet?

What? I thought guys over there treated women like shit? How is it you and your "friend" send flowers and beg when broken up with...

This is what a friend of mine does .....
And yes he sent flowers to her, bad move

He is in love with that chick, he can do something about it???

Me ?? Of course not .
I even delete her number and everything.

But my friend still have connection, she sent him msg for congratulations before 4 days

Lol I think you missed the joke...


Anyways yes if he responds back they might get back together and fuck. Then they will resume their fighting and break up. Again. She's a woman she likes that he is being successful. Since he backed off she wants to make sure she still has him in her back pocket. Re-engaging is a mistake and won't turn out well. Obviously. Also he doesn't love her he is attached to her and still has feelings in a sexual way. At this point he is probably fondly remembering the good times and not thinking about the bad. Tell him to think about why it ended and stay the fuck away. There are so many women in the world why go back to one who it didn't work or with. If you can give me ONE PERSON you know who was in a toxic shitty relationship that ended and then they got bac together and lived happily forever after I will eat a lemon lol. Unless one of them was a drug addict and is now sober the same patterns will emerge. Neither your friend nor this girl have changed. All that has happened is a little bit of time went by for them to forget the bad and romanticize the good. Probably because neither has found anyone else yet.

She ended with him in first place, now she contacted him after 1 month to say just congratulations .

So he can contact her now and ask for a 2nd change or he just continue to ignore her???

most propably will not work out , but he want her back.
he refuced to have sex with 5 girls so far.
he is crazy loving her

Here is not ahow get ex back forum. Secondly like all we say, it is a bullshit to get ex back. Best your friend? Can do is stay the fuck away.

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So he continue no contact with her ....

Her liking his posts and getting in touch again is just wanting confirmation that he still wants her.
As soon as he says, i want you back or i love you so much she gets the confirmation she wanted.

Best advice i can give him is: Send her a message like this:

Hey .... ,

Wanna meet up at <time> <place> for a talk about us, if not its cool and i will move on with my life.

If no response or hard no leave it, dont even reply anything back, ITS DONE and your friend has to move on as hard as it might be.

If she wants to meetup make a list of stuff you want to discuss but just know that relationships that ended are never meant to be, one of the 2 do not have what the other wants hence a breakup. Changing yourself or her is not easy so find yourself a better match.

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Do not make external things like girls define your happiness or you will live a harsh life. Keep doing what you love and keep improving as a man.

Ok , thanks