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Well... Today i asked her why she had been so quiet the last few days, and she told me she had lost interest. She really wanted to make this work, so extremely much. I was exactly the type she wanted, but she just wasn't feeling it (because i failed at KINO).
She told me that she had thought to herself, that if nothing happened at our last date, this would never be a relationship. So she was really waiting for me to make the move.
well... this is where i stand today. With a lot of questions, sadness and frustrations over myself. This is one of the worst mistakes i have ever made with a girl. So, is there any possibility to fix this ? She is still up for meeting me, not a date or anything, but as friends...
Is there any way i can fix this at all ? Or are the feelings lost, when a woman decides this ?
No way to fix it. She has already stated to you that she lost her interest because you didn't make a move. So even if let's say that you somehow managed to meet again then what. Do you think that she would let you kiss her , now that you already have been told? Any move that you will do will be seen as forced. Will she respect you if you try to make a move AFTER she told you precisely that she hoped it would work but she does not feel it?
Unfortunately there is nothing that can be done, since she has already painted your image in her mind.
Look at the positive part. You are "Exactly the type she wanted" on paper. Therefore I 'll take it that you probably have good attributes such as decent looks, education etc. If you are too much of a nice, shy guy, this is what needs to change.
CHAT
