Please Guys need help here ....

We had a 2 years relationship and lived in her apartment, we even wanted to married soon.

The last 2 months we had economic problems, she speaking about that all the time and i went crazy most of the time. I insulted her one night and she said me that want to break up with me and she ask me to leave.

The next day i called her and tell her that i was sorry, want to meet her etc.
Of course she refused and tell me that we are finished

After 4 days went to her home to speak to her and change her mind, same again she said that she dont change opinion and that she dont want me anymore

So i choosed to let her calm, "no contact rule" , no calls, sms etc with her for almost one week until yesterday.
Yesterday some friends tell me that they see her to kiss one guy in public, the guy flirt with her the night before and she goes straight ahead to meeting with him the next day (wtf?)

I turn crazy and wanted to kick her but calm down and call her again, i said to her that i love her and want her back and that the kid want just to f@ck her (i turned to a f@cking needy ).

Broked the "no contact rule" and call her because of the kiss,
wtf she is doing?? Forget and moved on in just one week??
I do everything wrong, i am the needy one now

Just one month before wanted to marry me, she was jealous and had obsession with me
What can i do now?? She is really want this guy or she is just playing with him to make me jealous and pursue her more???

I choosed to not speak with her anymore, i am broke as hell because i wanted to marry her.
Please someone with same experience help me

Thank you all

I understand what you’re going through right now, but you can't do anything, what's terrible is, anything you try will only make it worse. I know it seems out of the clear blue sky, but he was sniffing her panties long before this happened.

Let me stress this point: your ex girlfriend will be the one to finally make decide whether or not your relationship is over, and any potential solution you try will not have any success.

And I also stress very heavily that you read J. Daniels post on getting your ex back.

What you can do right now is to give her a lot of space and freedom that she so desires. You shouldn’t make any attempt to contact her, not one bit.

Now is the time to focus on yourself. It'll suck but this too will pass.

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She meet him a week after our break up in a club, he flirt with her and she accept it.
How can she do that only a week after our break up??

Wanted to let time pass and make a move to get her back, and suddenly i learn about that.

I went through errors and needy reaction, sent msg etc.
Now she said to a mutual friend that she will contact lawyer if i sent msg to her again.... :0

Blocked me in facebook and tell me not speak to her anymore.
I am goin crazy, how can she forget everything in just few days??

Any advice guys?? Need to forget her or can do something??

Her friend already gave you advice. Leave her alone.

Stop worrying about what she's doing. She doesn't want a relationship with you anymore so just respect that. There is no rulebook on the way a person deals with a breakup, so quit questioning how she's dealing with it. Focus on yourself from this minute on.

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She is in a rebound relationship i am sure that she dont want him, she just was so angry with me and he was the only one that can help her forget me.

I was so overconfident with her before and i thought that she will never let me,
i cant believe this.

So cant do nothing, its over. this hurt guys

JackZero you think i can get her back someway or you believe its all finished???

The lawyer part against me tell me that she is really angry and she is really want to not see me again in her life and that its all finished

I must end my hopes right??

You're too focused on wanting her back to get her back. To get her back she has to desire you. Get your head on straight and demonstrate that you're desirable.

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What if i trying to make her jealous ?

It can work, but why not instead focus on enjoying a new women instead of using them? Let your ex be jealous as a side effect of you bettering yourself.

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Let go man. It's done.

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Let's focus to the half full of the glass. So u won't marry with a chick who bang around after 1 week of the breakup. It's better to not marry with this chick.

I know you are heartbroken but man the fuck up. Take a look from outside to your posts and unserstand how desperate you are looking. Remember POF.

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What is she supposed to do after 1 week of the breakup? cry crocodile tears and stuff herself with icecream while watching soap operas?
Would that make a good wife?

Yes, OP has to move on. But he has to do it out of his own strength. There's nothing wrong with fucking around after a breakup.

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How to keep a girl.

C'mon they are about to marry, i tried to show how weak was the string between them. We are talking about serious relationship, at least she could do it hidden. I think it is distespectful. So IMO she is not worthy to be with.

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It's a rebound.

Go rebound yourself!

OP Joined forum about a week to late. It's a little easier to save a sinking ship than raise one off the bottom of the ocean. This relationship is the Titanic.

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