Hey guys,

I have so much stress lately since i fall in love with this girl i met going out (been chilling with her and her friends 5 times now), she is single and is very hot compared to my current girlfriend which i have a relationship with for 4 years. We don't argue, we give each other space, we have fun together but i am confused whether i should breakup to get a hotter girlfriend, it does not nessecarely have to be this new girl i really fallen for mostly because of her looks and the connection we have.

On top of all this i am not a 100% sure she likes me the way i like her, iam in the she's the one zone while she might consider me a fun friend to hang out with, i keep drinking to much to pick up hints lately so next time i see her i will stay sober. I went to her birthday party about 2 months ago and she asks me all these questions about how many girlfriens i had before my current gf, how old i am and really tried to get my attention but last few times we went out nothing like this, more friendlike behaviour so i am guessing she lost attraction to me mainly because i got a girlfriend i never really pursued her.

Sorry for long post but really hope someone can give me some advice.

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Do not make external things like girls define your happiness or you will live a harsh life. Keep doing what you love and keep improving as a man.

Break it off with your girlfriend. If a hot girl comes along and you're not even sure if she likes you and it makes you debate breaking up, just imagine if one comes along and actually likes you.

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Yeah but even if she does like me would it be a valid reason to break-up with a girl you truly love but only in the looks department has shortcomings? Lately my mind is trying to find valid reasons to break-up with my girlfriend and the best one i can think of is there must be a better fit for the both of us.

I made a pro and cons list and its like 50/50 but i turn 25 in 2 months and i only had 2 girlfriends, a borderliner and this super sweet no drama girl who is like a 7. We have a lot of fun but looking back how we met and some other flaws on her part i feel like its a shame not to find a better girl.

I feel like if i never met this cute girl i would not have all these thoughts about breaking up even though i like petite woman and my gf is nothing like that, not fat but not petite. Her innerside is like a 9 and i truly liked the non drama relationship so looking at my situation what is the right thing to do here?

Also thinking about the talk makes me cry because it will come as a total shock to her, last week we went to disney land paris and we still go to the movies and out to dinner once a week or so.

Please help!

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Do not make external things like girls define your happiness or you will live a harsh life. Keep doing what you love and keep improving as a man.

Kind of sums up everything doesn't it?

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I guess it does, thanks for your logic

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Do not make external things like girls define your happiness or you will live a harsh life. Keep doing what you love and keep improving as a man.

Actually people need sometimes action, why dont you try cheat on her and u can easly get some feedback about it. If u d cheat and feel nothing about current gf, it would not be a problem. If u have a chance to buy better computer, why should you wait. U are actually at the right age to conquer the hills. Do not stuck at 1. There are plenty of ugly at the same time good personality types of girl. But nothing is like fresh pussy. Make your dick a favor. Stab it to other chicks pussies.

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Psychal power comes through Mental strenght.

Do the forum a favour and restrain yourself from making anymore posts.

Void can u just fuck off?

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Carpe Diem, Dolce Vita...

Psychal power comes through Mental strenght.

Spoken like a real life coach.

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Is he seriously?

He said that's what he does for a living. Not only that....it's his educational background.

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Life coaching is virtually an unregulated field. Anyone can pretty much call themselves one. My registration as a psychotherapist stipulates I cannot call myself a life coach, though some choose not to register to sell themselves as therapist and coach. In addition one has to hold a masters degree (typically an MA or M Ed.) to register with most psychotherapeutic governing bodies. Life coaches there's no minimum level of training or education required.

I am sure there are some helpful life coaches out there, but when I see guys with this mentality trying to impart their 'wisdom' on others its just another example of the blind leading the blind. It concerns me.

Hence the reason it makes me laugh when he said he went to school to become one.

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Cut the bullshit OP. If you truly loved her you wouldn't be contemplating leaving her for someone hotter. And that's fine, but be true to yourself.

Your 'hunger' for a hot girl will only grow stronger overtime. Trying to suppress it will nothing but make you miserable. Either that or you snap and cheat on her.

Either way, the answer is obvious.

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Are you 12? 14? If you're any older than that and you're considering breaking up with a girl just because another girl is better looking, you're doing it all wrong. This is why I'm not here that much anymore - a forum full of people talking abundance mentality, yet people still feel the need to make ridiculous threads like this one.

Leave your girlfriend. She's probably too good for you. Then again like attracts like.. maybe you're both crap

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