Hello Hello,

I’m sure this thread will get some attention!

So………………… I am in the beginning of an LTR (4 months) and am having the best time of my life with a girl I connect with on so many levels. We both have Alpha type personalities and have our own lives. We get along great and have had an amazing 4 months full of fun things. I have met all her family and get along with them great. We are planning a trip overseas shortly. Blah blah blah things are good.

Now let’s get to the sex part, The sex is great! She is amazing and I’m not too bad myself. We have sex in random locations and where we shouldn’t and try different things. We are both very kinky and she has honed in on trying to get all my fantasies out of me. I told her after a few drinks one night that I fantasise about being dominated in the bedroom. So low and behold she has now dominated me a few times during sex.

I would like to hear thoughts from some of the more experienced gents out there, am I right in thinking that her dominating me in the bedroom every now and then is ok and wouldn’t lead to her respecting me less? I feel as though the more I let her in the more she tells me about her kinky side too. So I feel we are further connecting by such activities.

Interested to hear thoughts on this as I’m guessing there aren’t many guys that would bring this up 

It would only be a problem if you had a submissive personality.

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Exactly.

Having a dominant personality and purposely letting your girl dominate you in the bedroom every now and then could be a huge turn on for her.

Don't worry about it and have your fun.

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Good to hear Gents, as i thought.

Don't allow her dominance to reach outside the bedroom too much

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My ex once tested me in some kind of way (she was weird) by saying "the bedroom is the one time where we're not equal. In bed I am your slave, no matter what" lol. Other girls have liked it the other way (as I do) where they pretty much rape me.

This girl I'm seeing now, we kinda take turns... whoever is more horny at the start, will emd up bullying the other one around the bedroom. Makes no difference to respect.

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