So my girlfriend broke up with me, and im curious what it meant when she said that she needed to work on herself right before she did it. I think what i screwed up was that i acted too soft in being her emotional tampon a little bit and not substantiating more comfort before escalating.

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This is too brief of information to go by on:

But what I do know, girls make excuses so that they don't hurt your feelings. For example:

' It's not you, it's me' = it's you

'I am really into my career right now' = It's you

' I meed to work on myself ' = it's you

What is your gut feeling to why she has ended it? You MUST have a good idea of some sort, I doubt things were going to great and she suddenly mentioned she wanted to work on herself out of the blue.

You're single, it's not the end of the world, you're free to do what ever the fuck you want now. It's a good job you're on a pick up forum and have ambitions to play the field, right?

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Lmao.
OP, I hope you take this question seriously. You are not on a I want my ex back forum here, it is a pick up forum. If you provide more information I'm sure it could be deciphered what went wrong here and you can learn from it and move on. But game is not about one girl, it is about becoming one of the small percent of guys who are good with girls in general. Is that what you really want for yourself?

Oh trust me im the complete opposite of get your ex back guy. She was beautiful but there are plenty of physically attractive girls out there. Ive been on this forum for a while and the things it has taught me has made me a better man. Im pretty sure she talked to her aunty about me and they are a strict greek family. Shes also a virgin and had, according to her, only pecked one guy before me. I pushed the sex agenda a little too hard. I just want to learn from this and move on thats why i made a post about it.

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You got into a relationship with a girl when you haven't even slept with her? I am not surprised you forgot to mention that in your 1st post.

This forum has beat people on the head with a stick about getting into relationship mode with virgins, I don't get what is wrong with you people. i highly doubt this forum has helped you if you're pulling this shit.

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I realise now that i put her on a pedestal because she was a HB10. However my gut feeling tells me that she dumped me because of my pursuit of sex from her. A bit of a dilemma but its in the past and from now on ill sleep with the girl prior to going into a relationship.

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Did you at least get gob jobs from this 'HB10'?

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Thankfully yes. I think i rushed into the relationship

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Were they the sand paper lip style BJ's that virgin's tend to do?

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The guy on the right in the meme posting above looks like He-Man compared to some of the skinny pantsers I've seen scampering around the cities of earth.

Ha I've actually gotten used to the virgin relationship thing. Don't get me wrong..it's crazy...but the thing I still dont get is the LONG DISTANCE virgin relationship thing.

It means she wants to see what an actual cock feels like before the year ends.

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Yeah fair point.

Genoda, did you actually try to fuck her? How would you rate your escalation skills?

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Genoda, how is your sex drive? Do you get a boner every morning? If you're not having one or you're semi-hard, there's the root cause of the break up in your "relationship".

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Id say a solid 8. Im pretty damn good at it. She loved it and i repeatedly fingerblasted her. I just didnt push any further because she was genuinely scared of going any further

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