she kinda is my girlfriend and she says she is not actually in a closed relationship with me still. but she agrees she is in a thing with me and wants more. she is like a 10 so you know why i keep talking about her after the thing i will tell you in the next lines. everyone calls her "megan fox" cause she looks so much like her. well... she is on vaccation and she called me and talked to me for like 4 hours yesterday night. the thing is in that conversation she told me she is thinking seriously about me and that she dumped 2 men, one of which i know(not a friend). But after all those things about how much she wants to go on holidays with me she like told me something she told me for the first time 5 days ago.. what she told me is that she will go somewhere for some days with her ex saying with neither of us its an actual relationship and that with me its still the begining and she knows him better so he also knows how to manipulate her and make her do things. the way i replied the first time was: ok at 23 that you will go with him there i will stop talking to you. so yesterday it was one of the things that we talked about. she dumped 2 for me and i should not stop talking with her cause that would be painful and if i wanna stop talking i should stop now cause after some days i will be in her life like an everyday habit and she is everyday bonding with me. i told her: if you want me you can keep me. you know how. but if you go i will leave. i am a man and i am not your gay friend or your kitty you can manipulate and treat like shit.
well back to the point we was talking about holidays.... at some point she was like: ow i wanna go in that place. you wanna go there? i was like yeah ok lets go at monday. and she then told me: what day is the 23rd of the month? and i replied: you think i should really know? i dont give a fuck. you should know that. then she like turned into a kitty and saying: come on... i did not replied to that. kept the silence for about 5 mins. after that i said: ok goodnight. she said: oook.... goodnight(with the tone of i wanna be cute and i am sure he is mad at me.) ow and another thing i need to tell you guys is i know she was talking with him via messages all the time but not when with me and she was with me a lot the last week. in the conversation she told me: what is the problem with that? i am still talking with him and if he was here i believe i would have sex with him. well its not that i never had sex with him again i know that part of him its nothing new or special to me. he will exist only on text after those days that i will be with him there. i will be with you all the time. i want a relationship with you but its still the begining. but. she does not want me with other girls and when i look at other girls or say they look nice she is reeeeeeally jealous. ow and i told her: if i let you do that it means that i can have an other girl too? she said: well not actually that is not nice.. i wont be with him.. only those days. i said: its the same for me. is that ok i said? she said: well ok. but not a lot of girls. i want you for me. but i cant tell you to be only mine. i am not actually in a phase for a relationship i am a bit of a rack and i wont be the best company for you. and i dumped 2 for you...i said: i like how u are as a company. And the thing is that i am at the same time dating a girl she knows. but does not know i date her. she is like a 10 too. tomorrow i will be out with the number 2 girl. but i am really in need for a relationship to settle for some time. she kinda mindfucked me..... i know megan for a year. she was my girl of about 1 month. then i dumped her cause i thought she was dating the one i talked about before. the one she dumped now for me. she said she was not dating him at the time i thought of it just got out with him in a company not the 2 of them alone. some months after that she fucked with him. need your help guys on how i can keep that relationship and make her feel more as my girl and dump that guy from the past. or well the present.... also... he lives in another country. he is not even in our country.... she traveled there 1-2 weeks before i reaproach her for him i guess and they fucked there again. damn as i read this it seems worse.... glad i have the other girl also as an option. the other girl is the one i was talking in another post of mine but i am not sure if its still here or its been deleted.

Sad nobody else replied.

In my opinion feelings dont come or go by fucking someone else ( except when the sex/the person is so 1000times better) but even then, when she hasn't seen the guy for a while, it must have faded away.

Think your solution was best: you fuck around: while you fuck around i do the same and then you get both back together and see whether it was worth it. Then try again with her and this time for a solid relationship without fucking others? Think it is perfectly possible.

Do you think her being a 10 makes her just good enough for you to let the other 10-girl go?

I personally think you should clean that post up a bit before you expect a response.

Make it easier on us bro.

The easier your post is to read, the easier it will be to give you advice. So think about us too. Pro read it. Separate the paragraphs. You can do better.

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You are right man. When I was writing I was pretty emotionally charged. Well I am an artist so you can understand that I am behaving mostly emotionally. Thanks for the kind advice anyway. I will get better by time.

I guess the problem is that my post is too dense and not actually constructed carefully so nobody really wants to try reading it the way it looks, but thanks... Well I think I am the kind of man that gets too hot blooded and acts silly and emotionally when caring for only one girl, so one of my musts is to keep playing with more that 1 girl all the time even in a relationship. I have made her cum with me but not these days of our new start.. so i guess the sex is pretty ok. Only done it with her these days 1 time or so. I think I can be considered a pretty cool guy with girls as well as with my friends. But the thing is how do I solidify a relationship? The longest I have kept a relationship is about 6 months or so but having another girl(together with her) in the middle for about a month. Well I believe no girl worths that i stop being active and let other 10 girls go. (except if she is in a really solid relationship with me and she is like my other half. Thanks a lot for the reply brother!

This is so difficult to read, as someone above mentioned.