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PostPosted: Tue Apr 07, 2015 8:57 pm 
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Ive been with my current girlfriend for almost 2 years. Shes great to me and cares for me. She does everything for me and supports me. I lover her i truly do. Sex is also great and she gives me the best bj's i ever had. Shes everything i ever wanted.

But for some reason i still am not satisfied. I still want more. I want more women. and i dont know how to stop this need of mine. And it all makes me doubt that she is the one for me. Before finding her i was juggling 4 or 5 women always. And now being a one woman guy i feel unsatisfied. I live with her and i dont want to lose her and specially not hurt her after all shes done for me.

I find myself attracted to other women sometimes way more then her and want to have them. And i feel no matter who im with or how hot the girl is and great to me, i still will want an even better one or just want to continue cheating and gaming.

Im 26 and i dont want to continue hiding all of these feelings. I dont know what i should do. Or if there is any option that will help me without hurting to her and without lying to her.

Help!


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PostPosted: Tue Apr 07, 2015 10:00 pm 
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I was in the exact same situation.

Human's instinctively want variety. Monogamy does not provide which is why you probably watch more porn more than ever than before you were in a LTR.

Sorry to say, but I do no have optimism for you. This will get worse and worse and it will end.

My advice would be to stop wasting time and end it. Or at least try to convert to an open relationship. Perhaps try swinging?

What I learned from my LTR was that to NEVER get into a relationship with someone unless you see babies, marriage and one girl only for the rest of your life.

You will end up cheating on her and it will be much worse when she catches you when there is a baby involved. Make a decision sooner than later, I was with my gf for about 3 years. She pushed for a baby and I was unhappy for about 1.5 years till I decided to end it finally, going off on and on, cheating her on whenever I could. I felt rock bottom for a few weeks but then I started to enjoy being single and having 4/5 fuck buddy rotation. Love it. No regrets.

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 07, 2015 10:55 pm 
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I had a very similar situation.

Long story short, the more you drag something like this, the worse it will be for both of you.

If you really love your gf and want to be with you, then don't go to places where there are other women who turn you on.

But honestly, what's basically going on is you never found yourself in the first place. There is a certain
emptiness that a man will experience after getting really good with women, that will make him want
one girl.

Place your hand on your heart, and breathe into it. Ask yourself, "What is true for me?"

Wait for the answer, and it will come. When it comes, you may not like it, and you may be afraid
of following it, but that is the right thing FOR YOU.

Not for me, not for someone else, but for YOU.

It's your choice if you want to follow your truth or not, but when you do this, at least you will know.

She will be hurt when you leave, but she will be hurt for a month. After a month, she'll move on and find
somebody who really wants to be with her.

If you keep dragging this you will hurt her when she'll be older and her looks abandon her. What then?

Follow your heart.

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 07, 2015 10:55 pm 
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I had a very similar situation.

Long story short, the more you drag something like this, the worse it will be for both of you.

If you really love your gf and want to be with you, then don't go to places where there are other women who turn you on.

But honestly, what's basically going on is you never found yourself in the first place. There is a certain
emptiness that a man will experience after getting really good with women, that will make him want
one girl.

Place your hand on your heart, and breathe into it. Ask yourself, "What is true for me?"

Wait for the answer, and it will come. When it comes, you may not like it, and you may be afraid
of following it, but that is the right thing FOR YOU.

Not for me, not for someone else, but for YOU.

It's your choice if you want to follow your truth or not, but when you do this, at least you will know.

She will be hurt when you leave, but she will be hurt for a month. After a month, she'll move on and find
somebody who really wants to be with her.

If you keep dragging this you will hurt her when she'll be older and her looks abandon her. What then?

Follow your heart.

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 07, 2015 11:25 pm 
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You believe that there's something you want to gain in chasing women.

Until you really believe being with one woman and pouring yourself into one woman is what you REALLY want, you'll be in conflict.

I think you have to decide that for yourself.

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PostPosted: Thu Apr 09, 2015 6:06 pm 
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Damn dudes. I did it. I had that talk with her and told her the truth. And its over now. But i feel like it is the right thing. You guys are right and i just couldnt face it. Shes from germany so shes going back. Shes getting everything together within the next week or 2.

What should i do till then. Should i still sleep in the same bed?

I told her we shouldnt be all luvy duby anymore and be more like friends until then, otherwise it may make things harder. But do you guys think i should take her out for one last dinner or anything like that?

Anything special or will that just also makes things harder?


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PostPosted: Thu Apr 09, 2015 6:37 pm 
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Damn dudes. I did it. I had that talk with her and told her the truth. And its over now. But i feel like it is the right thing. You guys are right and i just couldnt face it. Shes from germany so shes going back. Shes getting everything together within the next week or 2.

What should i do till then. Should i still sleep in the same bed?

I told her we shouldnt be all luvy duby anymore and be more like friends until then, otherwise it may make things harder. But do you guys think i should take her out for one last dinner or anything like that?

Anything special or will that just also makes things harder?

Sorry to hear that bro. I guess you are both still friends. I had to stay in the same bed with my girl for like 2 months till we moved out. In one of those days we suddenly had impulsive emotional intense sex, it was crazy. Be careful.

I think it's best to cut contact, delete her Facebook, hang out with the guys, watch some sports, grab a beer and think about all the new pussy that is soon to come.

Me and my ex vowed to stay friends but then I saw her holding hands with some dude when I was on a sarge and it messed my head up. It was halloween and I was dressed as a fucking mime too so felt really stupid. I decided to not see each other as friends.

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