Whats up guys. I've been in a relationship for about 3 months BUT, 3 weeks ago we finally kissed. Yeah, a lot of time haha. We do not live in the same city but I see her every weekend. I'm 20 years old and she has 17. She's a virgin and also very educated. By educated I mean that she is very careful not having sex at a young age, before marriage, etc. When we are kissing I put my hands on her waist and start moving them around her low-back, waist... but when I try to move to her ass she quickly grabs my hands. Also, I had noticed that she feels a little uncomfortable when I'm kissing her neck. Maybe because she thinks I try to escalate or something like that. So my question is, how do I escalate with her?

PD: She's a very good girl and I know she loves me. Also my two friends that are real good with this pua thing told me that she really loves me.

If your friends who are 'good with this pua thing' had your interests in mind, they'd have probably told you to not make this chick your girlfriend without even having KISSED her yet, let alone slept with her yet. That's ridiculous.

Sorry man, but it is. Makes you look really desperate... And that you just simply wanted a girl to pay attention to you without any kind of concern for who she is or if she makes you happy. And your buddies should be telling you that.

3 months and all you get is a peck on the lips? Maybe it's time to have a real conversation with her. She IS your girlfriend, right? It might be useful to know if she's saving herself for God, or marriage or whatever... Cause if you're not into that sort of thing, that's a bit of a stumbling block, don't you think?

I was not going for the kiss at first because I thought I needed to be sure I wanted to be in a relationship. I took things steady and when I felt that I wanted to be in a relationship with her, then I kissed her. She asked me later that day I kissed her if I was taking things seriously and my answer was yes.

Also, I thought taking things steady with her would be better because we live in different cities, she's 3 years younger than me, she's like the little innocent sister for everybody, and to see if I really wanted to be in a relationship.

"And that you just simply wanted a girl to pay attention to you without any kind of concern for who she is or if she makes you happy."
You're kind of right in here. But I think that was more then than now.

We've been practically boyfriends for about 3 months and 3 weeks ago we had our first kiss. Did I screw up things with her? Generally and in respect of escalating things with her. Thanks for your help.