As the title says, I want to love my gf (3 weeks).Everything is super cool.She's smart, funny, good looking, we have many things in common.Last night she told me she's falling in love with me, and I couldn't feel any fucking thing...
I want to love her, to feel the excitement when I think about her and when I see her...but I can't..

Idk, maybe it's to early..
What do you think about this situation?Has this happened to you before?

o man, sound like me. see i was dating this chick for almost 3 years and she finally told me she loved me about a year later, see i would never had brought it up since i'm probably an asshole. but she finally did said it and i also did not know how to answer that i do like the chick i do care for her but love? idk
seemed like i still wanted to get more girls, and which i did but i still have feeling for her, we are still friends
but hey if anything
you should be honest.

i feel like girls appreciate honesty more than anything and they will always remember you based on that
i have 5 ex-girfriends that still talk to me and we are totally cool with each other and some of them told me how awesome i was that i was straight forward with them when it came to things like that.

but like you said 3 weeks, idk if anyone can possible love anyone in just 3 weeks.

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Dont rush love.

My advice is to talk a lot and I mean a lot about everything, beliefs, views and all of this stuff even concerning sex and just life, how you believe relationships should be and even boundaries within them, what your morals are.

Then if you have done all this if you can make a big list of all the things you love about her and feel like you are a compatible match then you might be falling for her. 3 weeks is pretty soon, but love sometimes just comes your way and you either accept that or you don't...maybe you do feel it, but you're just trying to hide it so you don't get hurt unknowingly.

That's my advice, take it or leave it. I know it sounds like hogwash, but everybody is different in the way they feel things, sometimes it's incredibly fast, sometimes people prefer to take it slow.

You can tell her if you need to take things slower and don't be insensitive about it and let her know you care about her a lot, but just let her know and if she really loves you she'll understand. Good luck man.

How does this shit even happen in 3 weeks?

I mean my only explanation is huge amounts of neediness and as a result, instant attachment to the first breathing organism that gives you any validation. That's not love, it's an illusion. A dangerous one at that.

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