So once you have a girlfriend. Do you drop pickup and use other techniques that are more relationship driven?

Who and what books are good to learn about relationships as opposed to game and pickup?

Or do you just use game on your gf and if that's the case WHY even get a girlfriend?

I'm having probs with becoming the nice guy/boring once in a relationship because that is who I am by nature, my real self. Of course I still keep up being funny, but once in a relationship I don't really know WHAT attributes are high value and work to keep the girl interested. AND I thought relationships were RELATIONSHIPS where you get to know each other and accept each other unconditionally without games, but it seems without games a girlfriend losses interest.

So what is your advice on relationships and are there any resources that have helped you distinguish it from pickup and also be better in relationships?

That's what I would like to explore and analize too.
Let me know if you find something useful.

Wish you luck

There are dozens of this exact topic on the forum already.

OP: stop posting in relationships and read the rules (and warnings) I've sent you or you'll be banned.