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I've noticed with some girls if you text or call too much and it's a huge turnoff as you're seen as too available, too little and they think you're not interested. Sadly, these games I think is even when you're in a relationship
So how often should I be texting and calling my gf in general and for what reasons? Like random DHV spikes or emotion spikes of funny pics etc or random things fun thing happening in my life or NEVER and just to set up going out?
Depends on the girl. With a girlfriend I would think you would talk every day via text or call just to hear about her day or whatever. I mean at most I might go a day or so without talking to her if you got something going on or she does but on the average I'd shoot at least one message a day to say Good morning. Go get em, hope your day is going well, or whatever BS. If you can incorporate some DHV spikes sure but she's your girlfriend you already got her, you just working to keep her. Funny pics are a good excuse as any to strike up a convo.