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Hi I have a freeze out dilemma.

Here's the whole story, been with a girl about 6 months now and everything was fantastic. I suggested going for a weekend trip to another country and she seemed up for it. A week later I booked it and told her we were going, she was shocked but I asked her if she didn't want to go but she said she did. We had one more normal interaction where she was cold and then she froze me out for a week and a half. I was really Beta during this time and sent her more than a few unanswered messages big mistake I realise now. After 1 and half weeks we met and she said she didnt know if she wanted to meet anymore and didn't want to go on the trip. I kept my cool even though I was hurting and said "ok".

She is not going to have all the power!

The day after I ask my hot friend to post on my time line " have a nice trip and I look forward to hearing your stories " this was my test to see if she would be jealous her reaction was almost immediate. She sent me this message

" I saw your friend is excited about your trip, maybe you could invite her, or maybe your ex-girldfriend, I couldn´t have noticed that she has been liking everything you do... anyway enjoy it"

I decided not to reply and have started to freeze her out as she also has no idea who is taking the free ticket. Is this right thing to do? Opinions appreciated:-) it's been two days so far and no contact either side