ok so i have this girlfriend, and i want to satisfy an emotional need in her. is there a way to find out what her emotional needs are. i personally think that all girls need to talk about themselves and their emotions, their lives, share secrets. i think thats a universal need. anyone know how to find out what she needs?

Yeah, she's your girlfriend.

You're not gaming her anymore.

Communicate like adults and ask her.

Oxytocin is the trust hormone. If she trusts you enough, she'll open up to you on a very deep level. This is the reason why pillow talks after a good banging make women happy and love you more. The oxytocin release from multiple orgasms will make it easier for you to connect with her on a very deep emotional level. Just listen well when she gets the urge to talk after you fucked her well.

In simple terms, a hard throbbing cock from a very skillful man makes a lot of women happy. Be that man. Shut up. And listen to the ladies when they start talking.

THAT combination is what makes women happy.

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Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

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Needs, like feelings change from moment to moment.

Needs are also universal, such as the need to feel loved, for companionship, intimacy, autonomy etc.

How are you supposed to know her needs at any given moment?

Ask.

Gary Chapman wrote the book, its quite well known.

^^^This 100%.^^^

If you want your girl to open up to you after you have satisfied her sexually (which is also emotionally) you can seriously ask your GF anything and she will open up to you.