Hi, I have recently began to notice that my GF is getting a little bit more dominant than me, in terms that I am the one the calls her more occasionally instead of her and in terms that I find myself needing her more than I should and more than I ever did, and it goes the opposite way on her side, she is less needy.

Plus she came up with a talk that I should be more of a boyfriend than a bodyguard, she means, that when I am out with her friends, I am usually less social and wouldn't drink or get stoned with them... And that's because I am keeping an eye out for anyone that would try to hit on her / harm her. And, I am the one that gets us both home eventually.

She says we need to be a little less "touchy and kissy" around people too.

Now if you read up the recent three situations I've had with my girlfriend, I would like to be helped out here a little, I mean, in terms of what should I do to be more dominant now and how to make her be that needy of my love again. Also what to do with the talks she gave me.

hi ben, a few pointers:

-never text or call her more than she does you
-never kiss or hug or even touch her first, make her come to you every time for 1 month straight
-flirt with her pretty friends while you're all out together. flirt with other pretty girls too, right in front of her.
-never say "i'm sorry" for anything, unless it's an *extreme* mistake you've made (for example, missing her grandmother's funeral)
-always be cocky and flirty with her.

do these and i think you'll see some pretty nice changes in the relationship : )

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