Hi, I've been in a relationship for 3 months now, she's 17 I'm 22, big difference I know but the previous girls I had with almost no difference in age were no good. So, the problem is that she almost doesn't have any interest in my life and this means my work, the sport I do on a high level and this cuts me really deep. All she does is talk about herself. Perfect example right now, she's on a school excursion for about a week now and I never got any question about how I'm doing, what I'm doing, ... All about herself. Now, this is my first relationship, I wasn't really into this in my teenage years, so I only have experience in one night stands. So I question myself, is this normal? Are women just like that and do I just have to embrace it? Or am I just being selfish? For the rest we are doing great in the relationship, so I was just wondering.

are you fucking her?

No problems on this field either so yes

Bitches do that, they talk about themselves constantly. What would you expect? You want to tell her that you're chilling by yourself in your room thinking about her? C'mon. Just deal with it. Plus, she's 17, you cant' expect much from teenage girls, or girls in early 20s tbh.

I would like to shed light upon you that it's not always like that. Most girls I've talked to know how to keep the conversation going.

I think goodnamesaretaken meant that as a generalization, OP.

If you don't like how she's behaving, find another.

Do you honestly think you're going to change her, instead?