Well, hey guys me and my gf are together for 8 months now, when she gets drunk she is so fucking jealous and really watching my ass, il keep this shit short I'am kind of in shock even now after the big chaos..

Me and my gf were drinking at friends house celebrating the new year, long story short, she gets drunk and this scene is happening ULTRA APE SHIT!

Me talking to a friend: hey dude lets go home its already late

friend: ok 20min and we are gone

Me to gf: look in 20min we go home (she was super drunk)

and then she packs her shit and we go out, so this girl got out either and said "who wants to come with me in a cab home" so i told my gf that we are going home with her and we are will drop off near out house, at this point this friend of mine got drunk and said that he stays, Well fair enough me and my gf agreed to go in 20min anyway doesn't matter with you, This girl goes back in AND THIS IS WHEN THE APE SHIT START!

GF:Wtf you were with her outside alone (i wasnt i was with her and my guy friend talking about guy stuff)

Me: i wasnt alone with her, and we are going home right now you had enough

GF: NO YOU KNOW WHAT FUCK YOU! WHO THE FUCK SHE IS TO TELL US WHEN WE GO HOME!!
(We agreed to go home in 20min it doesnt matter with who and we were short on cash, FREE TAXI WHOOHO)

Me: What do you mean? we just said we are going home our friend is fucking drunk and he stays but she is going home so we are catching taxi with her, what's the problem?

GF: No you know WHAT? FUCK YOU, YOU GO WITH HER!
(at this point the girl with the cab asked another time if someone wants to go, she was already upstairs and my gf ran upstairs so i thought my gf left me at this friend house alone and went with that friend, i was preety in shock she left me, so i got back in the house to take a cigarettie and went upstairs after i saw she isnt upstairs, grab my stuff and this dude wanted to talk for a couple of minutes we talked....at this point our friend went with His gf home and called me and said my gf is walking alone in the street at night all by herself, after i heard it i ran to search for her)

GF CALLING ME ON PHONE: YOU fucking asshole!!!!! i wish i never met you!!!!stay with your fucking bitch there! fuck you, you son of a bitch!!!! (there were another girl inside, my gf HATES every girl who is talking to me automaticly....no matter who....)

Me: (calmly talking) Where are you?

GF: you motherfucker son of a btich blah blah blah

Me: where are you?!

at this point my phone died, i looked and ran a really large naighourhood! i dont even know!! searching for my drunk gf like an idiot hoping to find her! I ran and ran and snaped my expensive shoes well i broke there heel because i jump form high wall, yeah yeah i know i felt like in jungle dunno where the fuck am i.

untill i finaly heard some clicking with her high heels walking alone, drunk, not giving shit about me, i grabbed her and forced her to go home, she was already near our home, we live in the same naighourhood,

and she all "FUCK YOU MOTHER FUCKER GO FUCK YOUR SELF SON OF A BITCH!!!!!!!" and i explained what i did and ran and tried to find her and she all "FUCK OFF YOU DONT CARE ABOUT ME AT ALL YOU JUST LEFT ME DRUNK ALONE IN THE NIGHT WHERE GUYS LOOKED AT ME LIKE A WHORE!!!!" (well if your stupid ass woudnt go ape shit on me and if you would of told me where the fuck are you i could have found you earlier) we went to her place undressed her went to sleep and she is like "Wow i cant believe you.....you fucking bitch" i was like WHOA WHOA WHOA and told her if she is going to behave like that iam not going to tolerate her shit! its all started WHY? because a girl offered us both to go home for free!! just because she is a girl my gf acted like that

She is, jealous, no trust at all about me, insane violent when drunk, fighting over stupid stuff, make me embaressed infront my friends with her drunk attitude, EXTREME child she is 26 iam 21 by the way...

i gave her the cold shoulder today in the morning and iam going back to army for a week, so she asked me if i have some thing to say, she thought i would brake up with her... i said nothing. and keep on being cold even over text right now... that's how i feel.. depressed.. dont know what to do and we talked alot... \:

how to procced guys...

Why do you deal with this?

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She sounds lovely

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Best thing IMO to do for her and for you is to leave her.

But don't just tell her: "I break with you get out"

Catch her when she is not drunk and receptive to listening and tell her WHY you are breaking with her. (because she is drunk, because she is acting immature by being jealous for no reason). You need to have some dignity, it is not your job to fix her issues. By doing this she eventually/hopefully realize she has some issues and seek for help.

And see by staying with "playing her game" (I'm so jealous, you don't love me, blah blah) makes you depressed.

If that really makes you depressed it hints me that you also have quite some issues. Why do you get depressed for nothing, you didn't do anything wrong. Why do you let other people to affect your emotional state in negative way? Do you think it is normal for this to make you depressed. Let me tell you - IT IS NOT !


She is not the last girl on the planet and there way better quality girls out there. Man up - leave her and find another girl that doesn't make unnecessary drama. And after time if this girl realizes herself and fixes her issues and wants to come you decide if you will open the door for her.


Cheers

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