So this girl told me that she woke up and stopped liking me.

OVerview of relationship:

1. we met online
2. We SPAM and first night skyping we saw each other nude
3. Decided to see each other and she visted me from florida (I am in nyc)
4. The three days together felt amazing and we were eager to see each other. We held hands and it was some shit out of titanic
5. 3 months later we saw each other again. Same scenario
6. 2 months later she visited me and I told her I loved her. She gave all the signs of her loving me. She came here for two weeks, cried 2 days before leaving, and even started saying how I should move to Florida and about how our kids would look. So I was so out of wack as to why she didn't love me.
7. I stopped loving her because she didn't say it back, but then when I noticed she didn't message me as much I started liking her again.
8. We made plans to meet in nyc again and today she told me she didn't want to come. She told me she woke up one day and stopped loving me. She said that she will be coming to nyc next year and will see me.

so what's up guys? How do I get her to love me again? Should I act indifferent and not message her and go out and show on facebook how much fun i'm having (not too obvious tho)

Have any of you guys managed to get one of your ex's back and if so what did you do?

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Sounds like she's either found someone else or she does this to guys more often than you'd like to think. Not saying she never liked you, but telling a girl you love her after only seeing her a couple of times is too heavy and creepy. That's probably why she's backing away.

Online shouldn't be your main source of girls. You need to go out and cold approach to sharpen your masculinity. You've learned a valuable lesson here; never emotionally invest in a girl more than she has invested in you.

Walk away, you're done. You got some hot sex out of it and you got to see her boobies. Next!

Yep - gotta agree. If you're too invested in a relationship too early and out of proportion to her, its only gonna end one way (been there, done that!).

Best advice is to cut her loose and move on