Hey guys,

I am seeking honest advice. Apologies for my English. Here's the story (we are both teens, if that disturbs you in any kind of way, just dont reply, thanks):

We both 17. For 6 years we studied in same school, same grade, different classes. We know about each other only basic stuff (names,friends,hobies). But this year I just somehow felt attraction for her. It was 2 months ago. After some chat'ing I asked her out. She was happy about it. We were meeting for few times a week. Important point: only I was asking her out ( she didnt). We got physical over a month now. Problems is
I want her to make any effort/attention. She's not asking me out. Not interacting with me in school if I dont start to talk first. She said that she is confused because she had a breakup in 4 months after 2 years of relationship. By the way I am thinking that I give her to attention, maybe I should leave her alone for a while?

Any ideas, opinions?

Seeking for answers,
TuxedoLT

You can NOT "make" her/force her to call you etc. Girls most of the time are either very shy to tell directly a guy they want to date him. Or either they are too lazy to do it. What they do is they just give signals and wait the guy to take the lead.

So in your case if you can tell if she is onto you its your role to take the lead (as someone playing the male gender role).

She is not your mommy so she asks you out, caring for you and making sure you have a good time. So don't expect this from her and save your frustrations about. If she does is - fine, bust just don't get bad emotions if she doesn't.

So as i told you - you call her, you make plans for what you will do etc. But (and this VERY IMPORTANT) don't do it from a point of neediness or that chase her. My best advice is - keep your other options (other girls) still open. Don't over call her, over text her or chase her to ask her to date you.
If you see either way at school you can just hint her slightly: hey there is a game,movie,(or whatever) next [day] lets go see it"

Girls feel bad after break up, but eventually she will have to overcome it, because girls also hate to remain alone. So if she doesn't hook with you, she will hook with someone else eventually.

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I disagree with that of the above.
You can make a woman, or girl, in your case, do anything you want, provided you're your own man.

Your intention was on the right path.
Leave her be for a while.
You'll then see what she really feels about you.
If the conclusion won't appease you, there are other fish in the sea.

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