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 Post subject: Buying GIFTS?!
PostPosted: Tue Nov 25, 2014 3:04 pm 
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Hi. So.

I've been dating this HB7 for almost half year(We are both 20). Next week is our anniversary, to be exact six months. Now, I never really was in gifts and stuff like that. But she always bought me something on almost every anniversary, love letter, bunch of chocolates or something.
Throughout our relationship I only bought her little teddy, a rose once, and I did once write her a letter. In terms of giving gifts, to put some perspective to it, I only probably gave her about 2/5 in value(Value like measured in money, meaning, and so on) for what she gave me trough our relationship. Obviously, she's more a giver then me.

I know this isn't important, but I don't want you guys to get bad opinion on me, we share 'bills' when we are out dating almost always 50/50, or sometimes she pays for everything, sometimes I do. So, when that's clear I can move on:

Before two months ago, she spent 2 nights with me, we were watching some romantic movie, and an idea came to her mind; why I'm not so romantic like the guy in the movie is(Jokingly). Then after the movie was done, she said in more serious manner why I never buy her flowers, or gifts or anything. I replied something like this:"You see, I don't see much value in gifts, materialistic or so. Take for example past three nights, I did cook for you, you got nice breakfast, right now you are sleeping on my favorite red blanked(To add some comedy), thanks to me and my persistence(which is full true) we spent our summer together and captured some of the greatest time of our lives."

After that, she kind of a feel, 'ashamed' with that statement of hers. She said like:"God, you are so right, I'm sorry, I didn't even mean that. I just never though of everything else you did for me... I have the greatest boyfriend on earth."

Two weeks after that, she cried when she mentioned she would like some letter from me, something she can have, to remember me for. So, I wrote her a letter, but not right after, about three weeks after she said that. And she was sooooo happy. I mean, this thing meant much to her.

So. Back to real question, what should I do for our SIX months anniversary? I mean, I know she's preparing something for me, I don't want to meet with her empty handed. Maybe take her for dinner? Or maybe buy her something small but symbolic? I don't want to turn out to be super romantic, I have a great leading frame, and she deserves much more than I give her, but, really guys. Need some ideas/opinions.

Thans guys for reading :)

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 Post subject: Re: Buying GIFTS?!
PostPosted: Tue Nov 25, 2014 3:31 pm 
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1. Dinner out.
2. Card with a sincere, hand-written message inside (say i love you).
3. Some kind of jewelry or something sentimental or special that she'd like (you know her best).
4. Sex.

You could also send flowers to her work if you felt really ambitious... (I don't know what your financial situation is).

I wouldn't normally advise this kind of stuff if you were not in a relationship with her... she seems to like this kind of thing though, and you seem to like her quite a bit.

Be good to her if you've found one you like. You're no longer gaming her. You're in a relationship.


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 Post subject: Re: Buying GIFTS?!
PostPosted: Tue Nov 25, 2014 4:36 pm 
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Thanks CharlesFinley!

I'm thinking about option number 2. Card with a sincere, hand-written message inside (say i love you).

This seems fair enough :)

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 Post subject: Re: Buying GIFTS?!
PostPosted: Tue Nov 25, 2014 4:58 pm 
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Thanks CharlesFinley!

I'm thinking about option number 2. Card with a sincere, hand-written message inside (say i love you).

This seems fair enough :)

I'd combine it with 1 and 4 as well... maximum effect.

Good luck.


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I'd buy her something. As Charles said you're no longer gaming her you're in a relationship.


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