Hi. So.

I'm in a relationship with this HB7 for six months now. We are great together, I think I love her, why I think that I will explain later. So, little background first, we go out about three times per week, having fun, doing various things so It is never boring. She is a great conversationalist, great in bed too, and so on. For this whole time we were together I though I loved her, I mean I still do, but 5 weeks ago came another girl, lets call her Gina.

Gina and I recently(about two weeks ago) started talking over facebook. She is a HB9, she started to ask stupid questions and she found every excuse to talk to me. I sometimes even left her 'seen', she still persisted. As time went by, we started to chat, and flirt more often over FB, she sent some dirty pictures, I sent some back(Not our pictures). Yesterday, as we both attended same event, she followed me home(It was past midnight), I waited for my bus, she begged me (almost) to stay, I refused, but she wanted to be with me so bad I finally suggested she comes along with me, and then when we arrived at my station we talked and waited for her bus, so I could finally "get rid of her".

The bus came, but it was full of some drunk fucking lunatics and I didn't want to leave her alone with them, and read in the next morning papers that she was raped and traumatized for life(Just kidding). So, because of it I went like a true gentlemen with her, we got off at the bus stop. I swear she wanted to kiss me, or fuck me right there, she licked her lip so many times I lost count, her eyes were on me 110% of the time and she never, I mean never broke her smile, we had a fun night.

Anyway, the bus then came again, and this time I said I really have to go, then she jumped on me and hug me so tight I could feel her body all over mine, she smelled so good, I was tempted so bad, to grab her ass and kiss her right there. However, off I went.

Now. Back to my GF, I didn't tell her anything about it, I didn't cheat on her, but I fantasize about this Gina girl(Ouh. Btw. This Gina, is in a two year relationship with some douche). My GF knows about her, and she did confess to me she has her suspicions about me and Kristina. After I assured her nothing is between me and Gina everything got back to normal.

-THE DILEMMA-

I want to know if I should tell my GF about Kristina, that I almost cheated, or that I don't feel true love to her anymore. I don't know if I will manage to avoid temptation if I come in the situation like that again with Gina. I mean fuck. I seriously don't know what to do. I mean my mind tells me to fuck Gina off, but my feelings, desires tell me otherwise. I want both. But I know I can't have that. So. Anything, opinions, even short stories, or haiku's I accept, because I need some guidance. Thank you guys for reading. You're the best

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It sounds to me like you want to break it off and play the field. You want both, but that's weak to do to your gf unless she were to agree to an open relationship.

Yes, she does know I have a GF.

And oceanx I'm not sure myself.

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The HB9 has a bf and flirts with a guy that has a gf.. she doesn't sound as a good gf material.
If you would had been her bf she would had flirted with other guys as well.
On the other hand, when a woman is flirting with a guy that she knows that he is taken she is more interested in testing her attraction value rather than the attraction that she feels for the man. She is competing with your girlfriend to satisfy her ego.
You on the other hand, you were never that much into your gf. You just settled for her because she was alright and convenient. If you stay with your gf, sooner or later there will be another HB9 that will make you feel attracted to her and there would be another love triangle. You need to have the HB9 experience before you can say that you are able to settle down in a relationship.
I wouldn't advise you suggesting an open relationship with your gf. She won't accept it. She will feel like you are demoting her.
I think if you continue staying with the gf you will at some point feel trapped and resent that you are in a relationship. Usually that's how endless arguments start. It is better if you break up now, game the HB9, fulfill your desire to be with an HB9 and then move on to the next HB-whatever. Don't even think about getting in a relationship with the HB9. She is just a girl that you can enjoy sex and nothing more.

I agree, I think he wants to get his dick wet by other girls, nothing wrong with that, but yeah settle things w/ your gf before doing so.