I have an amazing girlfriend. In our relationship, I can be kinda a dick sometimes lol and she puts up with it. She loves me A LOT. Logically speaking, she is a rare breed and a complete catch. This girl even gave me a free 2 day pass to do whatever I want with other girls because she had sex with 1 other guy. And I know, past is the past and you shouldn't worry about it. But the point I'm making is that she'll really go to great depths just to make me happy. If I asked for a threesome with another chick and my gf she would do it.

Logically speaking, she is simply amazing!

But emotionally speaking, IDK anymore. :/

I mean in the very beginning of the relationship it was crazy, I felt all these exciting emotions and whatnot. Then they started to slowly fade after the 3/4 month mark. And now I feel this burning sensation in my chest whenever I think about a future with her, I sure as hell am not ready. And honestly I am not sure if I even do want a future. But maybe that's my 23 year old mindset kicking in?

IDK it just feels weird. Like when she says "I love you" and I say it back, I question myself if I really mean it.

I don't think I am happy anymore. And I feel guilty cause she is a great person. Like today when we got in a tiny argument over text and I didn't see her at all, I felt happy and free. The 23 year old I want to go out and party and pick up chicks mindset kicked in and I liked it! Of course I didn't do that. And then when I plan on seeing her tomorrow, that weird burning sensation comes and goes from my chest and I'm not happy.

This is my first real relationship so I figure i post and ask people with experience in longterm relationships. (If 6.5 months is considered long term?)

And I'm being a complete dick to her, I know it's hurting her, but I know breaking up with her would hurt her more. And I'm not being a dick to her on purpose, I'm just trying anything and everything for me to be happy with her again. Basically, I'm telling her that she needs to learn how to do her make up as we are texting at this moment. Maybe if I can feel a strong physical attraction it will fix this?

Oh and also, I feel like physically speaking I could do better. She's not ugly, but she's no Megan Fox. She's a 7. IDK my cocky ass feels like I deserve a model, SMH. Amazing proportions! She doesn't do her make up most of the times, except every now and then a little mascara, and now that I have been haunting her about make up she's added foundation to her routine. She still doesn't know what she's doing and admits to having no idea on doing her own make up. She has natural beauty, so I am pushing her to get dolled up and dress up more cause I think she could be really pretty.

Please shed some light brahs. This is my first real relationship.

I also have to communicate to her how I'm feeling soon. As hard as it may be. It's just weird that I'm feeling this way. Again, logically, she is amazing. I told her this is my first real relationship once and I still want to get everything out of my system. (Meaning bang other chicks) And she told me to go do that and she would wait for me. Dafaq!? She is cool as fuck. Then again she has a kid because she was married, and in our culture what she did was a big nono and she does come with baggage of a child. But still, cool ass person imo.

Oh and it seemed like we were breaking up a few days ago, and I somehow managed to shed a tiny tear. I started thinking about our whole relationship, like it flashed by me and a tiny tear fell from my right eye. So wtf I'm confused?

Oh and we constantly text, facebook, and hangout pretty much every day lol.

There you have it. I've been there and waited it out till the relationship went completely sour. If I could go back in time I would have ended the relationship much earlier than I did, believe me. There are so many unbelievable experiences out there in the world and I was missing out on them when I was in that particular LTR. But of course, you should expect a response like this on a PUA forum

Idk but I never heard of a LTR girlfriend just give someone a 2 day pass . If she really cared for you she will be jealous of her own shadow let alone let you fuck someone else.

Does anyone else think this???


Would you give a chic you really like a 2 day pass???

It happens. They'd rather do that than lose the guy. Not all girls are this way of course but I've come across it.

She gave you a 2 day pass because she slept with another guy (cheated)?

The 2 day pass thing is worthless, that's why she offered it. Most guys who are rusty and been in a relationship for 6 months can't make shit happen in 2 days and she knows it. A few phone numbers maybe. If my girl cheated I would either dump or fuck 3 women behind her back. I'm a man, I don't need a woman's permission.

Fully agree with oceanx.

If you're feeling this way @ 6 months, it's going to go downhill, I would think.

It's your life, though, man... we don't know you or her.

And yes - again agreeing with oceanx ---- this is the type of response you're going to get on a forum like this, as 'abundance' is a mentality here... to take it with a grain of salt.

Cut this shit out completely. Breaking up with a girl is not "hurting her". Of course you don't do it like an asshole, but as civil as possible, but other than that, her feelings have absolutely nothing to do with whether you should break up. Don't use that as an excuse. You have to look at whats best for you and what you want and follow through.

Do you know what would hurt her more than breaking up with her? Leading her on and dragging out a relationship which is well beyond its sell-by-date and being caught cheating because she doesn't make your cock hard anymore.

MTFU

No she didn't cheat. In our culture you have to be a virgin til marriage, we're not even supposed to date. We did anyways tho lol. She had sex with 1 person before me, that's why she is saying you can have a free 2 day pass. She saw her past kinda hurt me so she offered it. I know I know, past is the past, get the fuck over it. But when I heard about it I'm not gonna lie it did hurt a little. Even if I cheated she would be upset, but wouldn't break up with me. She's that type of girl, she will go all out for someone.

But yeah I'ma talk to her today about how I'm feeling. :S Communication is key, here I go...