(history)

Been dating a girl for a few months now who is a fair bit younger than myself. Im 22. I took her virginity a couple months ago. Things we're kinda magical for a while. I always refer back to this site and always give her witty text responses. In person I try to be a manly man too.

(the conflict)

It's very rare that she will initiate sex. I often have to go to great measures to prime her up. Yesterday night we hadn't seen each other in a while...almost two weeks. I brought her to my gym for a workout, the library to study for school and then my house to make dinner. I took her on "a day in my life" date. When it came to being back at my house we cooked/ate and then she just plopped on my bed and wanted to sleep. I hadn't seen this girl in weeks and I'm not cheating on her(getting sex elsewhere); and she wants to sleep?? She always does shit like this too..puts stress on me to initiate everything. I tried yesterday and she was like "stoppp" lol. Fuck me right? She said she really didn't feel well... She was fine all day though.

I'm not quite sure how to go about this. As always, there's many options. Anyone's opinion is welcome
THANKS

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Paul

"A man is the sum of his actions."

She is young and she is getting too comfy.
Time to make it less comfy for her... before she loses all the interest she has for you.

I know your spot on...

What do you think I should do? I feel like explaining that calling us boyfriend and girlfriend is a little fast...That we should "take a couple steps back, before taking 3 steps forward". Or something like that.

A girls opinion on this matter is gold. Pls gimme some strategies

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Paul

"A man is the sum of his actions."