HB9 I've known for 3 years. First year utterly friend zoned. Second year made out a few times but she stopped after a whole and said we were just friends. Good freeze out and she came back around. Last 6 months we've been seeing each other again and finally f- closed. F-close 4 more times but nothing in over a month. We still see one another 3-4 times a week and hookup, sleep over and she says we're dating but everytime I try to f close she says she's tired or falls asleep.

I'll be even with you and tell you the times we did sleep together we're not good. Neither of us finished.

Looking for some input, thoughts or advice on situation and how to get better in bed.

I'm assuming you can get it up with no problems and can last longer than 5 minutes. Outside of that, the main thing you need to do is be dominant. You call the shots. You make the decisions. Don't ask shit like "does this feel good" or "do you want to try this position." Just physically put her in the positions you want and do what you want unless she says it doesn't feel good or stops you. I'm serious about this point. It will take you from "that was nice : )" to "you are seriously the best fuck I have ever had" status. Pull her hair, smack her ass. Be dominant. I've never met a woman who didn't like me to control her in the bedroom.

The second thing you need to do is warm her up for a while before even going near the v. Lick and bite (gently lol) her neck, kiss her lips deeply, work your way down to her breasts and circle the breasts with your tongue until she's literally forcing you onto her nipples. Spend a lot of time in foreplay.

Once you get between her legs, kiss and rub all over her thighs and do the same teasing things to her v that you did to her tits. Lick everywhere around it but do not go in for the kill, keep holding back until she's begging for it. Then go for the lips but not the clit. Wait until she's really worked up from that and start sucking her clit (very gently and slowly, then gradually increasing in speed and intensity) or licking her clit. At that point, stay on the clit no matter what, and she'll cum almost guaranteed after all that foreplay.

At this point, fuck her any way you want but keep your voice deep and talk dirty to her. Try to fuck her really hard so she knows you've got that in you. If she can cum from penetration alone (MANY women cannot) then just stay in rhythm and slowly go faster and harder (takes practice, hence the importance of getting her off orally in the beginning) and hopefully she'll cum again and again.

After that, cum either in her mouth, inside of her (use protection obviously) or on her face. Those three are the most erotic ways to finish and girls really like it when they make you cum, so you need to finish even if she doesn't.

Sex really is the most important aspect of a courtship. If you fuck a girl better than the other dude, you get the girl. Every time unless the other guy is a celeb or something. Even then she'll probly fuck you on the side lol.


PS: if you make her cum, immediately after she's finished you need to just hold her close to you for a minute or two. Something about that really bonds them to you, they really associate that incredible feeling with you.

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